what if a GAY person courts you....?

I won't. I can't risk entering a life full of complexity. It would be an insult in my part if that g@y exchanges me for a man. If a guy cheats on you for another girl hurts, how could being cheated because of a man feel? Anyway, who are we to judge? It is their own preference.

I think that they are not all like this. Some are just happy and fun and full of energy. The fact that you mentioned about someone who has a family says so much. I think that it is just their ways. I think that there is still a big possibility for them to fall for a girl. I am a guy and I know a few people like them and they bring life to a boring moment. I think that they should be appreciated for that simple thing that they do that makes us happy in some sort. Take care.

First, that's a horrible thing to do to your wife. Second, no I would not. Third, if they didn't lay off and quick, I'd punch them.

For me, that depends on the girl but mostly, they cannot. Unless the girl can't detect the actions of the guy or the girl herself is trying hard enough to court the gay for some reason that other may hardly take it. It's rare but it happens.

Well, in this case, I guess love is blind! The girl might have fallen in love with the gay seriously and she went doing ways to get near the gay and something happened to them that she got pregnant in the end. Now the gay, since he wants children of his own, to take care of him when he grows old, he married the girl and rest is history. If a gay courts me, well, that's another thing. I may say, it depends if I have feelings for the gay and I will be challenged to make him a real man. Well, this will be a hard thing to do but I will try my best.

No way for me, I like girls. But it's a situation that might happen eventually and in that case I think I would say "no thanks", not something offensive, but clearly explaining why I don't like him.

No , I wouldn't lead her on. I would tell her I'm straight , not bi. so we could be frieds but not lovers.

Personally, I don't think so.. But I guess when it comes to love, one cannot really say what you can and will do just to be with the person.. even if he is gay.

I think yes. I will ask him seriously his purpose of courting me. And he gave me the better answer other than "because I want to prove that I am real guy" then it would make me accept him. If he just want to prove something for himself then courting a woman is not an answer. I know some people who are gay but they have been good husbands and good fathers. They have just showed sincerity and love to their wives and children. others stayed being a gay, others changed.

i dont know as i have never thought about it. i dont think i would but i wouldnt be against anyone that does as its their business, but i also wouldnt judge.