Find my way back into love

@maria1081 (1251)
Philippines
February 26, 2011 9:16am CST
Have anyone of you find yourself difficulty starting over again? I feel happy and scared, inspired yet doubtful. I told myself after my last relationship ended that the next one would be my last, that was three years ago. I'm afraid to fall inlove again, I dont want to fail and I'm still waiting for God's intervention. There is someone special right now but how can I be sure if he's the right person for me? I dont understand myself, I want to fall inlove again but the pain of hurting again is haunting me. I need your thoughts...
3 responses
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
Maria, you must understand that hurting is part of loving, of course you cannot be certain if he is the one or not . But, how are you going to know that if you will not try? When you lost someone or failed in your past relationship, it doesn't mean that it's the end of your heart's journey to love. Do not be afraid to love again because if you failed before it means that someone better is coming tomorrow, and how will you know who he is if you will not open a door for a new found love? Give him and your self a chance. Explore love, I mean all of us are not getting any younger, got my point there?. You may pray to God and ask guidance but do not give all the work on Him, you also have to do something.
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
Thanks for the advice sunset. I have to loosen myself and give myself a break to fall inlove again. im going to cross my fingers on this.
• Indonesia
7 Mar 11
all in love, why be afraid?, it felt good for those who experience it and also expected by everyone. do not ever remember the pain, because it will make you stand back and afraid to feel again the warmth of love. forget the pain and begin to focus on the good that other people give you If you already started to fall in love again is wise in every action.
• United States
27 Feb 11
Only to have good love u got to go though bad love. It's alright to love or love someone cause god have good things for people who waited on him.