Loving someone or being loved by someone

@ada8may21 (2405)
Philippines
February 26, 2011 7:35pm CST
If you are to choose of the two: Loving someone or being loved by someone. I would prefer and choose being loved by someone. You maybe wondering why I choose this, because I easily fall in love to those who loves me most. So I dont have any problem of falling in love back to the person who loves me most. At the end of the trail, I loved the person who loves me most.
4 responses
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
27 Feb 11
I rather being loved but again, that feels really empty. I didn't stop seeking until I find someone I really loved cause before was always feeling loved but I didn't like them enough and that was really unfair. Now life is good.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
ITs really empty if you just love the person, it need to be two to tango. A relationship would not work on if only one will work it out. So its need to have. Hope you will find the real love that you are looking for.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
27 Feb 11
When a person loves someone then if some thing happens with the relationship negativly then the person who is being loved suffers a lot.When the caring and loving is no more we always miss the person who gave us such feeling.Being loved by someone is a great boon in life.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
I could not agree more, its really a blessing that we should take care if someone loves us the most. I just hope I could find that person who loves me the most. But even so I still feel bless because of the feeling of LOVE.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
Although i would certainly want to be loved and loved, there are times when one of the partner loves the other more. Like you i would rather prefer to choose the one that loves me than to choose the one i love. But then i realized that what if that person who loves me is not to my liking at all, can i force myself to love him in return? Although physical appearance don't matter to me much, but then it has a factor coz i don't want to wake up in the morning with the man beside me and get scared. Still i prefer to choose the one that loves me and i can love in return. So if he loves me but i am not attracted to him one bit, i won't choose that person.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
We feels really love by someone we also love. So the attraction should come first. I guess you would not be attracted to the person whose personality its not so appealing. LOL. I understand why girls would say that, but for me it really doesn't matter what really matters to me is the feelings that we both have with each other. That is the most treasured things for me.
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
you are exactly right. if feels to when someone loves you most that you love him more than he does. it is better to be love by someone coz it will be easy for us girls to fall in love with guys who loves us so much.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
I really dont know why many of us girls easily fall in love to the man who loves us the most. But its the mystery of love I guess that is why we are like that.