How do you handle problem with your Bf?

Philippines
March 1, 2011 2:07am CST
I always don't want to argue with my love one. I used to be quiet, just listen to him. But sometimes when my limits reach. I used to react and end the relationship.
4 responses
• Nigeria
23 Sep 11
if you really love someone there is no limit in welcoming sentiments.
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
What if i really love someone but he is abusing my kindness?
• South Korea
1 Mar 11
Sometimes it our common mistakes for girls to just keep quite and not communicate.. and then one day we'lburst to anger and say words we didnt mean, and we will regret later on.. So when your angry try to show it,talk about it.. so maybe he will not be confuse and keeps wondering... sometimes boys are too slow (peace) they need every detail to understand us... so lets try to catch up:) anyway they are the reasons why were happy too:)
• Philippines
22 Feb 12
Yes, you have a point on that. Just like what you said, Im a little bit kind of that because i really don't want to argue with my bf. I hope boys are not to slow to wonder what or why it went on that scene or problem.
• United States
1 Mar 11
I try to hear out his side and then tell my side of things. I do my best to make sure that both sides are heard and we can come to a compromise. Of course, some arguments are a little more intense and end in bad terms, however, for the most part, we end up being able to meet in the middle somewhere where we are both happy with the end result. Communication is the most important part of the relationship. BOTH sides need to be heard. NOt just the person complaining. :)
@jpaxxx21 (170)
• Singapore
6 Mar 11
when i am so angry at my bf i won't talk to him, if i do i might say words that might hurt him & i don't want to lose my respect towards him. i would let my anger subside first. talk your differences out :)