Can your ex-lover be your bestfriend?

Philippines
March 1, 2011 4:25am CST
What's your stand on this?
9 responses
@jonnifc (1021)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
It's possible. Some people can handle that. But for me personally, I won't be able to handle it. Too much emotional history maybe. Maybe we can be friends. But not bestfriend. I'd like to think that the one I am currently with will be my bestfriend.
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
i so much agree with you.
@tash01 (2031)
• Jamaica
1 Mar 11
yes my ex-bot friend is my friend, he still call me when he is free.Sometime he want someone to talk with an he call and we have lunch a few times. he has accepted that i have movie one ,and he as movie on too. so we have a good communication too.
@cathy1990 (221)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
yes, you can be a best friend if you want,because you already accept what happen between you and your ex-lover that you end like this in the present.you accept that its over and no hatred him/her anymore, because this is the starting point that you will become a friends by accepting and forgiveness.
@cathy1990 (221)
• Philippines
1 Mar 11
yes, you can be a best friend if you want, because you already accept what happen between you and your ex-lover that you end like this in the present. you accept that its over and no hatred him/her anymore, because this is the starting piont that you will become a friends by accepting and forgiveness.
@thatgirl13 (7304)
• South Korea
1 Mar 11
Actually I don't know the answer to this and have been looking for an answer to this as well. My ex-boyfriend and I used to be really good friends before we fell in love. But after a really nasty breakup, we don't even talk now. I don't think we are even friends. And i don't really know if i should be friends with him or not too..
• India
1 Mar 11
yes, why not. even this is true for me. my ex girlfriend is my best friend till yet. even we meet often and discuss things about our lives. the benefit in this relationship is that we know each other very well.. but yup its true that its very true.. if any one still feels the same love for the other.
• India
1 Mar 11
Absolutely no, because she is my dream girl. So she cant be my best friend, and the another meaning for friend is Trust but she didn't have any kind of good thoughts towards me.
@katie0 (5208)
• Japan
1 Mar 11
I think it's possible, if both parts are very generous, don't talk about lovers of today and also none of the two parts have feelings still for each other.
@iva75cpb (729)
• Bulgaria
1 Mar 11
Yes, he can. And he is. We split up 13 years ago but we remained friends. My husband and my ex-boyfriend are also friends and we often go out with the kids so the kids play together. We go see movies or just go out for a cup of coffee. Keeping such good friendship very much depends on the kind of relationship a couple used to have. Our relationship was tight, but we couldn't overcome the differences between us that's why we separated. It's up to the ex-couple's will to keep good relations after separation and this is the best thing to do.