Feel the Pain..
By daiweian06
@daiweian06 (1405)
March 2, 2011 12:32am CST
Letting go is very hard to do. It feels like there's someone squeezing my heart and pushing me down. Life is really unpredictable. You can't even know that one of these days it will happen to you in just blink of an eye.
Step by step, one step at a time you have to try to forgive and forget. Its part of growing up and nothings permanent except change.
Love is in the air. Better to appreciate all those people around you and don't stop looking for someone who is much better.
Weird feelings. If you're going to do everything just to save the Love or to let Go of the feelings and find someone.
Relationship is up to people who is involved with it. Sometimes we made a mistake and we never go back of what happened but to suffer the consequences. No on int his world is perfect. and we are the driver of our journey.
So be careful of each steps.
Good day!
God bless!
10 responses
@daiweian06 (1405)
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3 Mar 11
Forgive and forget that's the golden rule. We have no choice but to accept those things and let go of the past. Looking forward for the better future. God is still with us and guide us. We never feel alone because of the people around us.
Life is like a circle. Sometimes your on the top. And there's a lot of downs. Life must move on. Find another things to make us whole again and again.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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11 Mar 11
But I cant hide to myself that I still love him and also missing him so much. I will just wait for the right time if there's possible mystery. But if its not also a good time to find another.
We cant tell what will happen in the future. Only God knows.
Good day!
God bless!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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3 Mar 11
Oh perfect! Yes, we are the driver of our own life. What we choose is really what we want in life. There's a lot of ways to do it. And we must be brave in going the right path. Because even if we already there sometimes we still fail.
So what I learn is that never stop. Always find ways to achieve it and be positive whatever happens. Its all part of it.
Good day!
God bless!
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@daiweian06 (1405)
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11 Mar 11
You can only hide your feelings just for a moment. But you can do it for a lifetime. And the only cure is Him. But nothings to hold on to so I am now trying to accept all of it.
Going out with some of my friends also a good try to release the pain but still its all over here in my heart. So time will heal by itself.
Good day!
God bless!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
6 Mar 11
You should learn to use that pain. It isn't easy, but time would help. To ease the pain, but never forget it. And then channel all that pain into something positive. Like learning from it, and making sure not to make the same mistake again. Or to use the pain to help you grounded when you get full of yourself.
And of course to move on...
@daiweian06 (1405)
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11 Mar 11
Love is in the air. Yeah, The pain is still here but trying to return it on positive way. Its still fresh from being hurt so it wont heal at that fast and I wont hide it.
Missing someone is the critical time so when that happens I usually cries a lot. The after how many minutes it will dries up. And if I do that it feels like im fine.
Good day!
God bless!
@rhan04 (307)
• Philippines
3 Mar 11
I was just there few weeks ago. And you're right, it is very difficult to let go and sometimes, you are torn if you really want to hold on or just let it go. I chose to let go, but fate seems to be playing games on us because as soon as I let go, that person came back to me on his own will.
Sometimes, if it hurt too much, just set it free. No matter how hard it is. If that person is really for you, he/she will come back no matter what.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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3 Mar 11
It feels like something squeezing your heart on the first few days and after that back to normal. Its only how you accept those things and how you handle the emotions. Its not yet end of the world. And if they don't want us don't have to be sad. You are not meant to be. Don't waste your time and find another one. Don't stop your heart to beat again to someone much worth of it.
They are just making us ugly and we don't want that to happen. Let them Go! Let them Go! Their lost anyways.
Good day!
God bless!
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
10 Mar 11
Well i haven't never try this experience because maybe i havent been in love.
And you ?? Have you been fall in love with any person?? how has been ??
@daiweian06 (1405)
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11 Mar 11
Look at my other post so you could understand my situation. The only problem I have now is Love. And all the things I posted here is all about love. I do fall in love to the one I really love and lately we broke up and Its the hardest thing ever.
He gave up on loving me for only 22 months and if we will be together he should not get tired of it since e are preparing in marriage life. But the only thing is I'm the only felt the same and he change a lot.
Good day!
God bless!
@maryjane41 (90)
• Abbeville, Mississippi
2 Mar 11
sweety i have been in relationship after relationship to where my heart hurt every day. and when i finally stopped looking i found my true love. and neither one of us were looking. God put us in the same place at the same time. and that was a place that i had never been before and a friend had told me about another store and my daughter and i came across this one store and that is how we met and fell in love. so stop trying so hard and let God find the one for you.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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3 Mar 11
Our heart will feel the pain until we finally realized and accept the things are just about to happen. It must happen to feel the Love after a relationship. Love needs to feel the pain and get hurt to make us better person and learn from our past.
All things will happen in perfect timing. Just keep on seeking new guy so later on you will replace a new one. That's love it is just a rotation feeling.
And don't forget to always look good and keep on improving each day.
Good day!
God bless!
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Yes letting go is hard to do but it is the best way to heel all wounds.
There are many people around us who would wish to comfort us.
It is a matter of appreciating it.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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3 Mar 11
We never know and expects that our love ones will just leave us behind. But after all of those things happened still its a win win situation. We still learn something from it. To appreciate and love all those people around us. You can only realized it in times that you need them and need some comfort.
As time goes by all the pains, wounds, hatred are step by step going away. And when all our wounds heels its time to find another one. Love is like money. Come and go. Its up to you if you will hold it tight and handle it bravely.
Good day!
God bless!
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
When we are in a relationship, we are not sure that it will always be a bed of roses. Sometimes we have to pass through some thorns of misunderstandings with your partner. Well, that's part of it and it makes the relationship strong should you able to pass through that stage. The best thing to do is take each step one at a time and savour the feeling of being in love.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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3 Mar 11
But sometimes when all of it does happened you should let it go. Leave everything into God. And wait for the things must happen in the future. If it will happen as expected you should be happy and grateful and if its not its still fine and find another.
Go to the next person in short. Let it go. Let Him go. And go with the flow.
Wait for the best things in life. Just keep on moving and moving. Keep yourself busy and do your best to achieve your personal desires in life.
Good day!
God bless!
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
2 Mar 11
Yes it is true. The road of love is not easy. It can really be a pain in the heart if not walked properly. However, it can be so rewarding if properly cared for.
@daiweian06 (1405)
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3 Mar 11
All just happen whether we like it or not. Sometimes we made a mistake and after that we still learn things and find a success. Each way are the best. We should be grateful and must have faith in God.
There's a positive and negative in all things happening to us. Its only how we accept and handle those things. We may lose or win it.
Still all of our ways is a win win situation.
Good day!
God bless!
@Oldsix691418 (3872)
• China
2 Mar 11
I agree.I have seen too many helpless things that couldn't be ment,including finding your love.So I just let it be,never worry about too much,but as long as there's something wrong from you,you'd better do your best to mend that.Good luck!
@daiweian06 (1405)
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3 Mar 11
Even if we still find ways to get there. Its like its not yet time. Keep on going and soon we will find the right person. Just don't give up that easily. Wait for the right time.
No more worries. I am now fine and getting better and better as days go by. Pain is only on the first days and after that back to normal. Just let it go. Don't waste our time for such things. Time is gold and we never get back the time so always looking forward.
Good day!
God bless!
