best relationship.....

@n_ich3 (70)
Philippines
March 4, 2011 4:55am CST
How to make a relationship best? As a married person, I want to make my relationship with my wife at best always. In spite of the ups and downs, the challenges and everything that tests the relationship. I'm not perfect but I'm just a person like the others wishing a successful married life.
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4 Mar 11
the best part of my life is my wife & kids, i been with my wife for 20 yrs,we had are ups & downs just like most couples,i seen many of our friends married full apart over the years,when asking them where did they think it when wrong,they fill they never talk about their problems..me & my wife talk about everything that is going on in our lives..so to keep you relasionship on track is to talk talk talk about how you feel,any problems,.& to make quailty time for each other to talk
@n_ich3 (70)
• Philippines
4 Mar 11
Communication. Plays a big role in a relationship. I've read also in a certain column in Reader's Digest regarding relationship during after middle age, most of the couples' relationship are getting duller and the main factor of this problem is communication. The couple are no longer communicate as often as before. They tend to be busy to other things. Therefore, they don't care to each other anymore. And the sad thing is, they easily get irritated. I salute you Sir for having a great relationship with your family. That's not easy and needs hard work. I'm sure you're a good father and a good husband. Thank you so much for the reply.
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
4 Mar 11
Everyone will want to succeed in marriage, relationships that work well, and always harmonious. It is not easy to undergo relationship. But it all depends on each individual. Honestly, my relationship with my wife rigid and less good. However, we still used to joke, though only briefly. I do not know if my marriage, including a successful marriage or not. But according to my parents, my marriage is very chaotic, because it has a problem. If you wish, your relationship with your wife going well, you should avoid the problem.
@n_ich3 (70)
• Philippines
4 Mar 11
Thank you for the response. I agree that being in this sort of relationship (married) is not a joke. Very ambiguous in terms of responsibility, understanding, patience, humility, etc. Plus the tests of time determines everything that updates the status of the relationship. It's really not easy especially when problems occur. Well problems are always with us. It's just a matter of how are we going to deal with it. But sometimes, it's really hard to deal because of other factors that drained out our mind. Whatever it is, let's just do everything to make everything best.