I have hated the girls
By Polang
@tkonlinevn (6447)
Vietnam
March 12, 2011 3:09am CST
I took leave of my old boyfriend because he got women all over the place.
I remember that he loved 5 girls within he loved me too. When I found out the truth, I forgave him. Every time like that, he left the girl. But then, he loved difference one. I begun feel bored and I said good bye to him.
I didn't hate the girls who loved him because they didn't know the relationship between me and my boyfriend. However, 2 girls of them knew me, they were my classmates and they accepted to love my boyfriend! I hated them very much.
And now, I sometimes feel set up if I think about them.
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12 responses
@kwylima (451)
• United States
12 Mar 11
Don't spoil your precious time thinking about him (I know that sometimes is kinda impossible) because it looks like he doesn't like you enough to respect you. So move on. And if he comes to tell you that him regrets everything dont believe in him anymore..you know what is gonna happen after it. Love youself today and look forward..soon you will find a guy who really will love you and respect you so much and u never gonna remember this guy!!!
love yourself first!never let anybody bring you down.
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@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
14 Mar 11
Thank you your advices. I did like you said. And I feel better very much after that.
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
12 Mar 11
I think a guy who does that is insecure, he has doubts within himself so he has to continually reassure himself
, You did the right thing saying good bye
, You did the right thing saying good bye@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
14 Mar 11
Yes, thank you. We should say goodbye with this kind of boys as soon as possible, right? 
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
Right!, find somebody like... ahem
just trying to be funny to cheer you up, yes do not let a guy or a thing like that get you down
, find somebody like... ahem just trying to be funny to cheer you up, yes do not let a guy or a thing like that get you down
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
12 Mar 11
Cheating boyfriends don't deserve our love. We have the same situation before about cheating boyfriend. As of now, I am happy because I am no longer stressed out about him. It is hurting because I have loved him, but I can't tolerate the cheating and the lying. I can't bear it because I am getting sick with it emotionally. I had forgave him once and trusted him. But doing it again is different. Just move on my dear. Forget him and those girls. It won't help you.
@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
14 Mar 11
You like me. I can't tolerate the cheating and the lying, too. I forgot him and those girls when I decided that I would part him.
@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
12 Mar 11
You are better off without them all. Just don't take him back this time. Hopefully, those 2 girls were not friends of yours. Good way to ruin a friendship. Don't blame yourself for other people's actions. I learned this a long time ago. I still find it difficult sometimes. But in the end, I know it wasn't my fault. It's the what could I have done to change what happen. Once I realize nothing I can move on.
@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
14 Mar 11
Those 2 girls were not my friends when I knew truth. Now, I still don't forgive them. Though, I forgot them.
I feel better when I left my old boyfriend. I think that he are not fit to my love.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
12 Mar 11
I don't know why people do that. We used to have this girl in our school. She was pretty but really an obnoxious girl. She once had 3 guys as her boyfriend at the same time. Everyone came to know that but still guys were like running after her. When I was in a relationship, I sometimes had problems handling my relationship with 1 guy, I don't know how people do that with 2-3 people 
@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
14 Mar 11
You're right. There are many girls love 2-3 boys in the same time. I don't think that this is good. We should love only 1 person. We'll feel a true love.
@Zerakyo (20)
• United States
12 Mar 11
Ohh this is very unforunate... I believe he did this because he's rather conceited with himself and that he's able to acquire a girlfriend so easily in his own eyes. It could also depend on how long you two were seeing each other, you can tell alot of how much a guy is interested in you by his behavior. :]
I'm sure you'll find someone better along the way! Just remember, he may be 1 in a million, but there are over 6billion people in the world... meaning "there are 6000 other guys out there for you!"
@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
14 Mar 11
Hi Zerakyo,
Thank you very much. You're right that there many lovely people in this world. I also believe that I'll find a better man. And now, I have had him. It's great!
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
12 Mar 11
Somehow I feel some girls do not have ethics and they want to have a person who is already seeing someone else. So it is better to say goodbye to a boyfriend who has women all over. Some people are not worth thinking about so do not get upset. May God bless you with a loyal boyfriend.
@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
14 Mar 11
Hi Sunita,
Thank you for your response and wish. At present, I have had a great boyfriend who will be my husband in the next time. I hope that there are not many girls like you said.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 11
Whoa, your boyfriend is wrong and your friends also wrong doing this will make me very angry and I will definitely leave my boyfriend too. But before that, I think I will slap each of the girls who flirt with my boyfriend so they have their lessons learnt. HAVE A GOOD DAY!
@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
14 Mar 11
Hi Wong Choi Yee,
I understand your feelings in this my story. But I didn't do like that. I said to say goodbye him quietly. And I feel happy about that.
About the girls, I made them must understand that I hated them and I was right when I did that. I have still kept in touch with the girls who were lied by my old boyfriend.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
14 Mar 11
You don't have to hate the girls. If you keep on hating you'll end up hating everyone and you don't want that. You have to love those girls. Picture kissing them and your hate will disappear.
@iamhanifah (242)
• Philippines
12 Mar 11
It's quite natural for you to get jealous because girls are jealous by nature. But you need not upset to them. All you need to do is find for a good guy that you can trust and not a womanizer.
@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
14 Mar 11
Thank you for your response.
When I left him, I feel very peace and life is more beautiful. I realized that I missed many great things while I besides him.
@ernest220105 (179)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 11
if you have a boyfriend like that you'd better leave and stay away from him. This means that your boyfriend does not appreciate you more if you continue to side then it will be more hurt you. look for other, more loyal to you.
@tkonlinevn (6447)
• Vietnam
14 Mar 11
Yes, you're right. I left him when I knew truth about him.
But I want to say to the girls. If girl know that he had sweetheart, why did she receive his love?
@rhizziel2301 (169)
• Philippines
18 Mar 11
I think that kind of guy has not been seriously in a relationship he wanted more girl friends for his own prefernces and be proud of with his friends that he had a lots of girl friend... that kind of guy is not good for you just let him go and im sure u will also find a better guy than him.
