Did you have a happy childhood ?

India
March 15, 2011 4:57am CST
Well... When I remember my childhood I find very interesting things and happy moment which I can't express in words. I have been born in very small village and I have seen much farming in my childhood. We didn't have good educational backgroud till I reach class 8 and shifted to distruct headquarter. I grown up and now I am working after doing master degree... Many times when I lost in the thought I find my childhood life in village more peaceful than this life of big cities under elctricity fan and AC... What about you ? Thanks..
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@revtee (30)
20 Mar 11
I had an awesome childhood! Even i was born in a village but shifted to the city within i was 1 year old. But i remember visiting my village in every vacation. And most of our gatherings and social functions used to happen in our village! I remember this incident....I was around 6-7 then. There are so many monkeys in our village. And the village kids used to play with a thing called "GULTI" in bengali (it is a thing used for hitting with pebbles). We climbed up a tree one day and one guy was trying to hit a monkey with it. Obviously the monkey tried to jump from one tree to another. And it wass indeed jumping. I got so influenced seeing the monkey that i made up my mind to jump from that tree to the another. And, as common sense says, i fell down and broke my head right in the middle and was bleeding profusely! There was no doctor in my village that time (not even now). Everyone in the family got so tensed. Finally somehow they managed something (i don't remember how). Even today i miss my life in the village! I had a thrilling childhood there. I even got beatings for being naughty but i guess everyone gets it and the one who dosen't is spoiled. I can never regret my childhood! It was so much calm and there was tension of this world! I wish i never grew up! I spent maximum of my childhood with my grandmother in the village! The smell of farming, the smell of greens was just out of the world!
• India
23 Mar 11
Nice to hear all your story... It's always nice to hear about stories of someone's childhood as we start comparing some moments of ourself with their's... Thanks for your response..
@revtee (30)
20 Mar 11
Actually there is so much about my childhood i want to share. Thank you so much for bringing up this topic coz this is one such topic which always makes me smile! I had a lovely childhood and a great life till my 10th standard. In school i . was very popular being a very good student and yes teachers kind of preferred me!...lol :D I wasn't a naughty brat....but i was always upto some mischief! But being one of the youngest my brothers and sisters were always there to save me! I used to behave so innocent that no one ever used to suspect me.... ;)
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
15 Mar 11
Hi, sincere4, Well, according to the common concept of childhood we have either happy childhood or an unhappy one. Basing on this people say they had a great childhood and some hard. The fact is that no one's of us had a happy childhood. What you had in your childhood? Virtually nothing. Going to school, doing daily chores, and the company of the childhood playmates. All we had was a terrible childhood that we were dependent on our parents, no mistake, nothing that a child really enjoyed. The rules set up by our parents and more precisely by our society always kept us subordinate. The admonition, the inability to act ourselves added to our suffering. But the irony is that we were/are not aware of these factors. Following the common concept my childhood was both happy and sad. Or to put more emphasis on I had a painful childhood. Another paradox is that we were not aware of these controls that cut our ways and see only the nice things that made us not to cry.
• India
17 Mar 11
Our decision always get affected by the knowledge and the situation we are in to take it. As you said no body have happiest childhood, but what ever situation I am in...I think my childhood as happiest ... Yes we all had some rules and regulation when were child and had school too but I don't think there is any independence without any rule...other whole system will become painful for each and everybody who share... Thanks for sharing..
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
17 Mar 11
Actually I was trying to focus on the issue through different angle. Its ok. We will have discussion sometime later.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
15 Mar 11
I was an only child until the age of fifteen when my sister came along. Sadly our parents have never been emotionally equipped to be good parents and brought us up in a very negative and abusive environment. My sister and I are close and we are mothers ourselves now. We may not have had the happiest childhoods but at least we are ensuring our little girls do!
• India
16 Mar 11
@paula - It's really sad to hear about you. I have heard a story about two brother, who got raised in same environment but became different in nature. One become a good officer and other one a big drinker. One day when he was asked he answer the reason as his father used to do the same so he learnt fro that.. But his brother answered in other way and told he learnt not to do that in any way to ruin other's life around him. So you have learnt a great thing and that's nice thing to hear... Wish you luck with your childrean.. @linoxy - Yeah you are right. Many person has suffered like this, while they have got both of their parents but their childhood memory is not good to compare with many who had only one to raise..
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@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
17 Mar 11
hello friend! OH so sad to know that.No i did not have a happy childhood because my fathers was not with us he was stay in out side of our country.when i was 15th then my father come and stay with us.we stay with my aunt's family they are not so good.we were faces so many problem that time.but now everything is good.i love my family so much. thanks a lot.
• India
23 Mar 11
Why are you sorry ? Is it because I miss my childhood. But who don't? Those innocent time was greater than this pleasure which we get after taking much tension in job and life... Thanks for your response..
• China
17 Mar 11
Yes i have very happy childhood. My parents always say to me that when i was child then i was so quite and always try to maintain what ever my parents ask me to do. And i always share my toys with other child and that's why other child always play with me. Still i do remember some of my child hood story.when i start my schooling then i have fun with my friends and my teachers always love me. So i have very happy childhood.
• India
23 Mar 11
That's nice to hear. We all have had some nice moment in our childhood, so it's upto us that which we will remember... Thanks for your response..
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
I did. I just cannot remember memories.LOL...
• India
18 Mar 11
Thanks for your response..
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
16 Mar 11
sincere4frdship yes I really did. I was a farm kid brought up on a large farm with two huge apple orchards and lots of treesl.I was a tomboy and climbed trees, put on plays and enjoyed life innocent and unaware that people were out of work and starving as we grew our own fruit and vegetables and our own milk and meat. we might not have had a lot of money but we were healthy and we were never hungry. I was alone til I was 13 but I had friends at school. Growing u p on a farm gives you values when you grow up that you never would get growing up in a large city'and my parents were common sense people mydad a doctor my mom a housewife and mother. I was happy as a child as a teen not so much but myhappiest time was in my marriage from age 32 to 60 as I married the love of my life and had two children,.sadly we lostour little girl.now widowed and elderly my son is my pride and joy.
• India
17 Mar 11
You have written everything...I don't have word to say anything. But I would say a childhood time a foundation for everybody life. Whether it's a bad one or happy one but we learn from it and further life always get affected by it... What ever we learn from same moment occured for two person can be different... Thanks for sharing..
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
17 Mar 11
i am sure i had a very nice childhood experience. even as i am the eldest in the family, i remember i can do almost everything, i can do wherever i wanted, and with all the support of my family and relatives.
• India
18 Mar 11
Thanks for your response..
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
16 Mar 11
Hi! I would say that I had a fine childhood. It had the right amount of happiness as well as a bit of the sadness and problems that a child could probably face. As a child I was always struggling with overprotection by my parents. I grew up in the city and our house is located where traffic is usually present. In other words, unsafe. There are a lot of childhood games I never got to enjoy. My playmates were my dolls. But I was properly nurtured and reared. Never was a time I felt neglected.
• India
17 Mar 11
Every body have had some dark part in their childhood though they don't remember, why? Because they have just kept their happiest moment in their memory to make that alive when every they will think about that.. You should also collect memory like those to keep that alive ... Thanks for sharing..
• United States
16 Mar 11
Hi sincere, Nice Question. On my end I have a happy and sad Childhood Stage. My parents separated when I was 4 and my brother was 6 month old. My father left and have other family, same with my mother. I was abused when I was a kid. A nightmare, name it...etc....On the other hand, still many reasons to be happy. Yes, I grew up in the farm too. No electricity at all.. WE had electricity only last 2008 When I worked in Hong Kong. Life in the farm was quiet and full of dreams.Now, I live in the city.. noisy, garbage, snatcher, etc..hehe....God bless..Happy Mylotting!
• India
18 Mar 11
Sad to hear, but we can't deny the fate sometime thatw what we think and become happy.. Thanks for your response..
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Mar 11
I don't think so. Too much criticism and that I was responsible for everything that went wrong, I am glad now that I know it made me a stronger and independent person, but when I was so small it was hell, I remember crying everyday until 12.
• India
17 Mar 11
Thanks for sharing..
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
I did have a happy childhood. During those times, there were already TV and stereos. Yet my friends and i prefer to go swimming in the sea, biking or going to the farm to eat fresh young coconuts or simply hanging around eating peanuts ! Those were the carefree days , no problem at all. I really enjoyed my childhood days.
• India
17 Mar 11
Thanks for sharing..
@sy0712 (155)
• China
16 Mar 11
After looking your article,I could feel you have how nice and colorful childhood.Also,my childhood also enjoy playing every day,carefree,carefree laugh,think about feel happy!
• India
17 Mar 11
Thanks for sharing..
@vannyt (343)
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
I had a happy childhood I spent my childhood days with my family, relatives and friends. A lot of happy moments that when I remember it today, I feel sad cause a lot of things have changed and start longing for those old happy days although I know I can't have it back.
• India
18 Mar 11
We can't go back and when we realise it how much we feel as most of the person like to return back in their childhood...isn't it? Thanks for your response..
@linoxy (283)
• Cyprus
15 Mar 11
I personally can not say that I had a happy childhood, but there are people who experienced worse than I did. I don't see a reason complaining about it, the only thing which we could do is to try and find strength not to repeat those things which our parents did (which made us unhappy) to our children.
• India
17 Mar 11
Yeah you are right...it's just about looking towards anything and observing but best thing is that whether it was happy time or bad ...it always teach us something... Thanks for sharing..
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
Yeah, I miss being a kid, the thought of just playing with my siblings and not needing to be stressed out by my boss, by my work and with money. I loved my childhood. I have 2 sisters and 1 brother so we had lots of fun inside the house. We also had lots of friends in the village, so we were always playing outside the house, until it's almost dusk and my parents would call us in for dinner. Oh how I wish I could go back to being a kid!
• India
16 Mar 11
I also miss my childhood but we can't go back in time and who know after returning we would miss this time..lol Thanks for sharing..
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
15 Mar 11
For the most part I do believe that I had a happy childhood. Not every day can be all sunshine and roses. Some days a little rain must fall. Reflecting back, i don't have that much to complain about in my childhood except for the loss of loved ones along the way. These are years we just can't get back so we have to appreciate the memoriess we have.
• India
17 Mar 11
Yeah well said ...I am agree with you... Thanks for sharing..
@yanyanyow (326)
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
i have my mother and father and my elder brother since i was born. they made my childhood with happy memories. as a kid, they let me have almost anything i want but without spoiling me too much. my parents are my good teachers and guided me to everything i need to learn and because of that i was always on the right track of my life. they sent me off to good schools and encourage me to do stuffs that i want. indeed i can say that had a happy childhood:)
• India
15 Mar 11
That's a nice thing about you. Many of us forget naming those good person who has been created good time for us. But you still remember them ...thats nice... Thanks for your lovely response...
• Philippines
15 Mar 11
Yes, I do have a happy childhood. Way back in childhood, life is as easy as eating a piece of cake. I have many friends. I can do everything that I want. No homeworks. No mind-crushing subjects. Just fun. In my childhood, I play games all day. That is way too fun! ^^ Also, in my childhood, I can cry in the top of my lungs. I can cry all I can. I can also sing very very loud because I'm not prohibited -- I am child, right? So they understand -- that's what I reason way back then. lol In my childhood, I used to be a simple girl but now I'm somewhat a complex one -- from the way I dress to the lifestyle I'm having. Everything changed. Life is getting tougher and tougher but better and better. I treasure my childhood memories. Childhood is the time of fun and being mature means being more serious in life.^^ Have a good day and happy MyLotting!
• India
17 Mar 11
All memories are treasure for us even if it's a worst one as they also give lession and always warn us to not follow the same path... And memory of childhood is really a great treasure which give us peace if we have had nice time in that. Many times I get much tension from my job and life style but when ever I think of my childhood it always give me a smile and I get energy to get tense again..lol Thanks for your response..
@piaoruo (43)
• China
15 Mar 11
Like you said.I also had a good childhood,a lot of good memories .Now think of it all very memorable.But now the kids the other hand ,it seems,and we had not the same.
• India
17 Mar 11
That's nice for you... you should always keep this treasure of your's in mind to get energy when ever you become weak in life... Thanks for sharing..