What will you do if u see your boyriend's ex-gf in his wallet?

@biach17 (196)
Philippines
March 16, 2011 3:46am CST
Status: You will be celebrating 6th monthsary this coming April. You saw his wallet and someone whispered (maybe an angel without a halo :) ) to see what inside it and then you saw a picture both of you. You felt okay but when u took it up . there she was, the picture of his ex. His ex- gf is beneath your picture. what will you react?
17 responses
16 Mar 11
LOl..if this going to happen, of course i will get speechless at first but i will try to stay calm and just say in a relaxed manner, "oh, this is your ex right?? what's her name again?" and look right through his eyes..then you'll know everything upon looking at him, u can really tell if he's not yet over with his ex. but then again what really matters is the present..it's not a big issue to deal with.
@biach17 (196)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
If you are the present ..would you not ask a question why his past is in his present wallet....(just wondering)
17 Mar 11
of course i will surely ask why the picture of his ex is there..i expect a matter-of-fact answer..but, if he looks guilty and defensive, i guess it would be a bigger issue! :)
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
I will confront him... Of course hmm... I will probably even make sure to kick his butt and will fight withhim and never make him forget about this incident. He will regret he never took out the picture of his ex!!!
@biach17 (196)
• Philippines
21 Mar 11
I think that is a very real reaction..i love it. :)
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
There will surely be no 6th monthsary celebration that's gonna happen. Good thing an angel wants me to realize that that guy wasn't really for me, that early in the relationship. It's not too painful for 6 months isn't that long to me yet..so it will be much easier for me to move on. I will get mad at him for still trying to remember his past and has never really moved on, but after talking to him and hear his explanation, I will definitely be breaking up with him.
@biach17 (196)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
yeah...a past issue should be finished first before going to another relationship.
• United States
17 Mar 11
Hi biach17! Normally I would not check in my boyfriends wallet, just like I hope he too would respect my purse. But theoretically speaking that being the case, oh gosh I would be really upset and question why. Not about his past but I am his current and future so only female picture in there should be of mine. I would confront him and give him the scenario explaining that what if the shoe were reversed and I had an ex boyfriends picture in my purse, how would he feel.
@biach17 (196)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
FOr sure guys will feel terribly hurt..knowing guys...some of them are egoistic... But knowing that a picture of his ex is in his wallet...what the heck....The issue girls will be hurt to know that.
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
I am sure I will get mad to him.
@biach17 (196)
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
what if he says "i just forgot". such a lame excuse though.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
Actually i also experience that kind of situation and what i do is just let it be there but i also talk to my boyfriend about the picture. I tell him that if he really don't love that girl anymore take it out of his wallet and don't put it there again.. I'm easily getting jealous that's why i talk to my boyfriend straight.
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
17 Mar 11
i would ask him why he has his ex girlfriend's picture in his wallet. i would then proceed from there in my opinion of it. if you are just friends with him, maybe it wouldn't be a problem. it would be a problem for me if i was more than his friend and his girlfriend. three is a crowd especially if i'm his girlfriend.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
17 Mar 11
Hi, If I were at that situation,for sure, I will get jealous and I will find the right time to ask for his explanation.Although that is his past,but why he is still keeping his ex photo since their relationship is over now. There is a chance that he still have feeling for her ex,since he still keeping her picture in his wallet.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
17 Mar 11
I would get mad and ask him about it. He might still have a tender spot for her, that's why he still keep the picture of his ex. It seems that he loves deep and so he need longer time to forget.
@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
I think I would really doubt his love for me. Goodness! We have been together for 6 months and it is not my picture on your wallet?! What is he trying to say? I would truly be hurt, but still hear what he have to say about it. And if his reason is not convincing, I think we'd cool off first. Just to give him some space to think about things and if he decides that it's me he really wants, maybe, I can give him another chance.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
16 Mar 11
OMG i would be so pissed. Really. But hurt more than pissed i guess
@DanaS2011 (351)
• United States
17 Mar 11
Wow that is really such a lame excuse. The logics behind it is if you slid the new picture on top of the old one then you were well aware that the other picture was there and with no conscience put the new picture there with every intention on keeping the old one to refer back to. I would confront him and be upset like you have every right to be. He would have to get rid of the picture in my face or let me do it with my hand and reassure me that his ex no longer means anything to him. If she's part of the past thats where she should stay. There should be no pictures there to remind him and if he need a reminder he should look at you and think about the good thing he has now.
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
First, I will say sorry that I snooped on his wallet. Then I will cnfront him and ask what is the reason why he still keeps that picture. i will tell him then and there that I am not happy about it and will demand to have that picture thrown. If he can't do that then he still has issues in the past. If those issues are not yet resolved then I will leave to give him time to resolve. after then will come back to him.
• United States
19 Mar 11
i guess being straight would help, i would just ask to see hoe he responded to the whole situation
@cloud31 (5809)
16 Mar 11
That's hurt!But I will still be calm ask him what's going on why he should keep that photo in his wallet that supposed to be discard or keep else where. There maybe something happening or either still have some feelings that can't let go. Anyway that will cause me in pain, I think I will surely shed a tear and disappointed about that. Happy myLotting!
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
I would definitely confront him with a jealous voice and ask why the hell is he keeping his ex-gf's pic in his wallet. I won't make a big issue out of it though, but if he makes one mistake in his reasoning, i would surely burst out in anger. Why keep something like that in your wallet? Is she really that beautiful that throwing away her pic is such a waste? It's okay with me if he would put it in a box and hide it in the attic or basement, but to carry it everywhere he goes in his wallet is a different story. He'd better prepare for a good explanation then.
• Philippines
16 Mar 11
It is really hurt for me .And i am sure i am mad at him .I give him time to explain for it but if some his explanation is given me some doubt ,maybe we need space ..