with my ex

Philippines
March 17, 2011 1:32am CST
He was my ex for a long time ago. And now we had communications again. I know there's nothing wrong to communicate with him again. The problem is, he does have a baby now and they're not in good terms with the mother of his baby. Should I continue communicating with him?
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8 responses
• India
18 Mar 11
Hello! Communicating with yr ex is a healthy sign that u have accepted yr break up, but in yr case, u seem to be communicating with him after a long gap since he has already been in another relationship and has also fathered a child. I would feel it is purely for selfish reasons that he is turning back to u. It seems he has not been able to adjust with his partner and now feels that u were better than the present one. Therefore, I would suggest that u keep this relationship to casual communication only as we all in mylot will feel bad if u are hurt again.
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
Thank you for being concern.
@lizzyt2007 (1312)
• Craig, Alaska
18 Mar 11
There is nothing wrong with talking to your ex. I am doing it. Actually me and my ex want to get back to together one day. For now we're in different towns and we talk on the phone daily. My family hates him, but I don't care. I am protecting my heart from getting heart from anyone. Are you and your ex just friends?
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
Since we had communications again, we agreed that we should be friends again, cause after our break up before we lose our friendship.
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
Well I guess there is nothing wrong talking with him for as long as it remains there. In the meantime that the relationship is not working well with the other party though, there is a risk that feelings may start blossoming again. I think on that part it is good that you distant yourself from going into that and let him solve his personal problem. I guess that you need to distance yourself from there since you might accidentally destroy a family along the way.
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
Well I guess there is nothing wrong talking with him for as long as it remains there. In the meantime that the relationship is not working well with the other party though, there is a risk that feelings may start blossoming again. I think on that part it is good that you distant yourself from going into that and let him solve his personal problem. I guess that you need to distance yourself from there since you might accidentally destroy a family along the way.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
You wouldn't ask this question if you don't sense that your ex has a motive in keeping in touch with you again. Please be wary and try to find out why he's talking to you again. If you are not discussing about the past and you're just talking about casual things, then you shouldn't stop. You have to ask yourself though if there is just a small hint that he might want to start something with you. You can assess yourself as well if there is a chance you might fall for him again. Again, i will tell you that you won't ask this if there is no doubt in your mind. You alone knows what's the best thing to do, so good luck!
• Philippines
25 Mar 11
All he wanted is to make things better now, or I say he wants to settle everything between us before.
• China
17 Mar 11
i suggest you should give him some necessary help,after of all you loved very much each other.but there is a limit. Good luck.
• Philippines
17 Mar 11
I think there is nothing wrong when u communicate with your ex. Whatever happens in the past, that's past already. If your intention is to help your ex with his current problem then go. Be a friend to him. He needs a friend right now.
@annapplez (208)
• Australia
17 Mar 11
I don't really understand why you wouldn't. Is it because the mother of his baby might make his life more difficult for him if she knows he is talking to you? I think you should weigh up the negatives and the positives, although you may enjoy communicating with him again, if it is going to make his life and his child's life hard, is it worth it?