having a spoiled little sister
By gurlcrush17
@gurlcrush17 (101)
Philippines
March 19, 2011 2:23am CST
I have my little sister always crying in front of me asking for something which distract me. Yes! I always give what she want but now its too much. I really dont understand her much , whenever there is a problem I always here for her, but she really do not mind my business. She disturbs me a lot rather than my eldest sister. She want to get what she want but she doesnt understand that I can't give it all to her. Could you please help me how can I tame her whenever she make tantrums to get what she want ? She always cry during those time and my heart pity her so sometimes I just give in.
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2 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
Just try to make her understand that you can not provide everything that she wants.
It's good to give love and show our love to our younger siblings,but spoiling is too much.
It will give her a bad behavior once she grow up.
Better teach her lesson and behave what she should..right now,rather than facing big troubles someday.
Try to say NO,leave her cry if she won't listen,she won't die crying anyway.
Then after that talk to her,make her understand why you said NO.
Slowly she will understand...taking small steps,each day.
happy weekend
@gurlcrush17 (101)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
Yes that is the same with my observation thank you for that response. I'll try it step by step and teach her lesson mildly so that she will not commit the same mistake again in the future. I will not let her see my true feelings so that she could feel a little fear to me as her older sister.
@ddaguno (3107)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
That's the problem with spoiled sisters. I have one too. She's the baby of the family so she can get what she wants with just a few tears and she's so good at that too.
Im sorry to but you have to ignore her tantrums if you want her to learn a lesson. It sure is heartbreaking but you have to toughen up.
@gurlcrush17 (101)
• Philippines
19 Mar 11
Same with me she's the youngest in our family and like I said she grow up like that making tantrums to get what she want. Thanks for that ,from now on I will ignore her tantrums and try my best make sure she learned her lesson .
