Describe Your Ideal Mate?

--- She should be a vampire --- should be able to freak herself ... and me too --- long thick hair which is somehow silkier in a closer view --- should be a great liar --- should have fun always ... certainly not at the cost of others feelings nd nd there are many weird things i expect of her .Great day.

Years and years ago I decided to really pick on the traits that were most important in a mate, and those that weren't. To be too picky I think is asking for loneliness...but not being picky enough can make people unhappy in their relationships later on! I was lucky enough to find my true love at a young age, who fits all of the below ideals: 1) Animal lover. This was so high up on my list because people who cannot love animals like fellow humans are as close to soulless as you can get. I don't like even being near these people, so I can't imagine spending my life with one. 2) Loner; outsider of society. This was highly important to me: I needed someone who was like me and was proud of themselves for being different from the norms of society. Someone who isn't a sheep and doesn't conform. Someone who thinks for themselves--no matter how radical those thoughts are, at least they're better than being a drone. 3) High morality. I needed someone who values morals, particularly involving intimacy. I don't believe in multiple partners nor do I believe in doing things without thinking them through. Someone who was intelligent enough to consider morality in everyday life was a must. 4) A man who isn't afraid to cry or express his love in front of others. A man who is embarrassed to love a woman is not a real man, much like a man who doesn't cry cannot possibly be in touch with his humanity. 5) Someone who wasn't society's idea of "handsome." I did not want a man to whom I would stay with for physical attraction; I wanted a man who others would look at and wonder what in the world he offered a woman that they couldn't. Internal attraction is most important, physical should come later. Of course, if you'd ask me now who the only handsome man in the world is, it's without a doubt my husband. He's awkward, a tad on the fluffy side, with lips that most women would find too big and freckles dotting him all over. He's an individual, and I find that it makes him the most beautiful person in existence. I find that I can't find others attractive simply because they aren't him, and so this ideal of mine has definitely worked out for the best for us. Those are all my standards, and the things I couldn't compromise on. As for everything else...exactly what he looked like, whether or not he had a sense of humor or could cook, none of it mattered enough for me to remotely consider it. Because of that I can look over at my husband and see perfection...because I fell in love with who he is rather than who I wanted him to be.

I don't describe well my standard in finding a good mate. What I am into is the one who respect me and love me in whatever aspect in my life...there is no such standard that I wanted to impose to a mate...

Not really many standards for me but i want a girl who is simple, not totally dependent on me, caring, someone who would understand me well and love me for the person i am and i want her to be romantic. That is because i believe i am romantic too, lol.

You can not get perfect 10 out of the qualities you are looking for and that is for sure. If that happens there will be no more debate on divorce.Since he will be the one to handle the security of the family,he should have finished his study,with stable job,no vices,mature in his reasoning that is very much respectable,with decency in his action.

Every girl sometime in her life pictures the kind of mate she wants! So did I 2.... I have very simple demands when it comes to b my man- He has to give me all the love.....i dont mean 100% of the love he has in him.....but if he is loving me even 1%, that 1% should be pure and from the heart. I dont mind my man looking at other girls coz that a natural thing! I love someone. I know him from the past 6 years now. We broke up twice. He says me that he dosen't love me but he cares for me....Now i don't know how to judge that or what to call that relationship!!!! In my life he is that person who is important of all. Who is more important than anything! And i consider myself for being so lucky that GOD blessed me by giving such a person! He is such a person with whom i can share my everything! He is a bit short tempered and gets irritated easily....but i just love it when he is ina nice, comfy and romantic mood!Ours is an age differrence of 6yrs 7months and 1 day. So he is a bit more matured than me. But i like it when he scolds me for being wrong at some places coz those are the times i really feel he cares. iI would just take this oppurtunity and say him that I LOVE HIM A LOT. He is a bit troubled nowadays and i wish his troubles all get over ASAP! But he is not that person i used to dream of having! I dreamt of having a differrent kind of a person in my life! But now with him else...in my life, i just can't dream of anyone . Maybe this is what true love is!!!!! I read somewhere, a woman said "i don't ask much for in a man. He only has to be tall, rich, handsome, sexy, courageous, generous, strong and must be feeling like feeding me ice cream every night in bed....."

Hi,you know, when i was in my twenties, i want my future husband be handsome and capable and also come from a rich family. But as time went on, i don't care about outlook very much. And i got to know, honest is much more important than appearance, and furthermore, some handsome guys don't have a beautiful heart. The true capable person is rare, and most people are ordinary person. Maybe this one is from rich family, but maybe his parents don't like you. In one word, he maybe be good in this part, while not good at the other part. I think the most important part of a mate is he loves you. And even after you are not beautiful any more, he still takes you as a jewel.

I remembered the time when I was in high school. I set standards to every man I meet. Someone who is handsome or presentable, tall, smart, kind, rich and with no vices. But then I realized I must be looking for a prince charming from the fairy tale books. I was definitely influenced by this kind of book and I was probably living in fantasy because nowadays there is no prince charming living. I never set standards again until I fell in love with someone who is not perfect but i can live with him everyday.

She should be feel the true care and love ....

Mine is:1.not too short 2.not greedy 3.capable of doing housework and budgeting the family 4.not too thin 5.love and cherish her lover and the family 6.good to the elder and the people around.That's all.Hehe,maybe those are too old for you...

I don't have any standards, really! All I just want is a guy who love me and who will make me fall for him more and more everday! I am quite hopeless romantic

If you asked me this question during my teenage days of course my answers goes like this, I want my ideal mate tall, dark and handsome, honest, understanding, brainy, thougtful all those that are affirmative qualities. Those views are far different now that I was handling already a family and if I waited for the man those qualities I have mentioned I might not even get married now and maybe still waiting for that guy. Now that I have my own family, as long as the guy is responsible for the needs of his family- he should be a good provider, a family man, loving and thoughtful, understanding, to love me until the end, I did not expect a perfect mate because no body is perfect except the name Perfecto ^-^

my ideal mate : 1. not immature 2. good sense of humor 3. thoughtful and caring 4. good looking 5. thrifty 6. creative and hardworking

well i know that love is life. i want to rad about that.

i also having friends and i dont have girl friend i love one girlin my class we are insame school and same class i did not propuse to her when he knows he did not talking to me then he in now 12th studing then he going to college which college she going i do know wht can i do the love starts from 2and std till iam loving in oneside

I would prefer to have someone who could be so mature in thinking for a better.

I'm fine with my husband but if only he's a bit more thoughtful or romantic then I'll say he's Ideal. What made me say this? well, in our courtship stage, I never received any flowers or chocolates or any present from him like other girls do. Now that we are married, the only gift I received from him was a wristwatch for my birthday that later I figured out was with my sister-in-law's persuasion. Imagine?....anyway, he always makes me laugh though and I'm sure, I'm the only one for him and that covers all of it, lol!

For me she must possess the following characteristics: Sweet and lovable. She must be good, responsible mom our children Can do household work though not a must. Can easy to get along with and lastly She is God fearing kind. That's all..Though some character I mentioned is just a second though of mine as long as she is ready to tuckle her responsible and love me wholeheartedly will be fine.. Great day!