The most painful thing that someone had told you.

halu sharic, it's pain to knew that my mitral valve prolapse,will trigger and attacked me anytime while getting older,unless having my operation to fix the valve. But the most painful for me is,when i always see my mother cried after knowing this. But i'm not hopeless.because i do believed GOD is always there.

Two things came to mind. The first was when my mother told me my father had been murdered. I was at work and she came to my job. I just thought maybe she lost her keys or got locked out of the house. I went upstairs and security told me she was in the bathroom. I went in the bathroom and she told me someone killed my father. The second was when I was trying to get back together with my ex boyfriend who is the love of my life. I had stupidly broke up with him and it had been a few years later that we saw each other again. He told me he loved someone else. They got married. I guess they are still married. Breaking up with him was the biggest regret I have.

Hi sharic, This is 'familiarity complex syndrome. Might be she is looking for a better (?) partner. And if this is the truth you can not do anything. No doubt this is painful to bear. You have two options for you. Either talk to her and ask what exactly she is behaving quite or be confident and bold to show that you too are worth them. DO NOT WORRY IT COULD BE JUST ATTRACTIVE AND NO LOVE THING HAD EMBEDDED THERE BETWEEN YOU. JUST READ THE CONTEXT AND TAKE SPORTINGLY.

lots, I dont seem to remember anymore what's the most painful thing said to me, as all of them are painful. I am so immuned with those painful words. I hurt them back by hurling words at them too.

when i am at the age of 22 i loved one girl and i want to talk and make a phone and chat with that girl always even i never go to my house even lately go to my house. But one day some people told to her but she never think bad about me one day she was seen a girl was talking with me she is my classmate and she is friendly and we best friends since childhood but she don know about my friendship but she suddenly came to me and throw her cell phone i was gifted to her then she was saying i hate u and was gone speedly with her bike i suddenly feared about her heart beacuse her heart was broken into tears when she was seeing i talking with my friend so i went her home she is in a depression mood and taking sleeping pills in her hand oh god and suddenly my friend came to action she tell everything about my friendship with that girl. So at that time she began to hug me. Then i was feared at that time she was getting sucide attempt its very painful for me that first time happened in my life.

Well, to me, the most painful thing is that my mother once said,"you and I are not close like other mothers and daughters." I lived with my grandparents in the countryside since I have memory. My parents worked in the city. I have a little sister, who was taken care of by themselves in the city. I do not want to complain, but I really got hurt.

In my pregnancy at 36 weeks I heard some very painful things. I was told in the scanning room "Your baby has extra fluid in the head". I asked "What is wrong"? The scanner said "It could be one of a hundred different things. Go upstairs to be told by your midwife". So off I went really worried up those stairs. When I got back up there the midwife said "I am sorry. Your baby is not life compatible". Later on she explained " I have made you an appointment in Bristol tomorrow at the fetal medicine unit at St Michael's Hospital for 09.30". The next day was the worst day of my life. I had a detailed scan with the fetal medicine expert. He said he confirmed my baby has spina bifida and hydrocephalus. I went into a room with him, a female consultant and a midwife. He talked about what spina bifida and hydrocephalus are. It was shocking when he asked "Do you want to have an abortion"? I said "No way. That is the most 100% sickest thing I have ever heard. I am sure every midwife in the land would agree with me". At lunch time I felt really sad and sick to my stomach. In the afternoon I was taken around the labor ward which I hated. I still wanted to have a home birth. I was also taken around the special care baby unit and that was scary. My baby day of being born was like a ticking bomb. I went ahead with having a home birth. His birth was quick, easy and not all that painful. He is now three years, 10 months old.

I suppose the most painful things said were the things that were not said to me. They were said to others and I had to find out what they were second hand. I am referring to friends, a boyfriend; there are several that would apply I suppose. I have always been a straight forward person and I guess it bothers me when someone I care for is not.

Hi, So far, I never encounter any painful things in my life yet, Only sometimes when my husband said something sound not good to me,then I will feel unhappy,but after a while, I will just forget about it and we will talk to each other again. Being a couple, we do quarrel sometimes over small matters, but we did not have those long cold wars. We love each other so much,just sometimes we do have out own thinking and way to do things. Glad that you and your girlfriend are together and your relationship is getting stronger,that is a good sign. DO treasure your love for her and never make her feel sad.

hi, yes if someone tells that ur wornout and ur time is up then it really hurts a lot.And if it comes from the person whom we admire and love a lot its very hard to take and digest.

I would say the most painful thing i always feel is whenever my loved ones get angry on me or stop talking. Thats really unbearable and i can feel the pain and weight of my heart. If my hubby gets angry and stay not talking for an hour, that will be most ever painful in my life. But when he smiles and talks back, i feel myself as melting ice and so glad! I can understand how your pain would be!! God Bless!

the most painful words and statement i've ever heard from someone i love is that my ex-boyfriend go to my house and told me that she made her officemate pregnant and have to marry her, it was really painful, atleast he had the guts to go to my house and tell me the truth and not to just let me knew it when it happen. for now were cool and were friends, i accepted the fate and accepted that he's not the right for me :)

the most painful words i heard from my boyfriend is when he said i dont have plans of marrying someone like you.... without putting into consideration his little daughter who's about to become illegitimate.....he's just so rude...