Trying to get the feelings again

I think boredom. Sad, I know, but this is why I think that. They get into a rhythm,routine, they get too comfortable with each other. Soon the excitement fade they become bore then the mind starts to wonder. The person who says he/she fall out of love, I think it's just an easy way out of the relationship. I mean who in their right mind wants to stay in a loveless relationship? I know I don't. If my husband tells me he is out of love for me, while it would hurt me, I would let him go. I want to be wanted in a relationship not just because.

I agree with you, myself have the same concept as you have just said..Its hard to get back the feelings to one person when you're already fell out of love..Its definitely right in my own opinion,when times parted you with someone without any reason thats unexplainable, it just happened that both have fell out of love and feelings has totally gone.. Further to these, once a person leave and time brought him/her back its hard to imagined how's the feeling of being with the same person and trying to force yourself to fall in love again.. I prefer to be alone than to fall with the same person which I leave behind or leave my feelings behind..I guess.. Happy mylotting!