I Warned Him... Should I Point That Out?

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Hahaha. Okay, so I've established that my boyfriend's mom is way to controlling of him and she made him go and get a vasectomy. But since he couldn't get enough cash to pay for it himself he went to one of the southern counties near here that accepts Medicaid for a vasectomy. I told him not to do it. Not just because of my person issues with a vasectomy, but the doctors in these southern counties can't do their jobs right. They work down there with all the poor people because they weren't accepted at the big hospitals. But, noooo, he didn't believe me even though I grew up down there and he didn't. "My niece told me that her ex husband went there... so it must be okay." Haha. His niece has also been so doped up these past few months. I wouldn't take a dope head's word on anything. (They claim she is 'self medicating' because she hasn't be getting the right medications from her doctors so it's all good. Not in my book. But, okay) So this morning I call him and see how he is and he is groaning on the other end of the line and saying how bad it hurts (that's the other thing, his mother claimed he would be right back to work next morning) So, then he says that he was hurting so bad this morning that his mom looked at it and said it was all hacked to pieces! I'm telling you when he said that I started cracking up! I couldn't help it! So, I'm sure now he thinks I'm a cruel beeyatch to laugh at his unfortunate circumstances. But I grew up down there and I KNOW that area, I KNOW the doctors down there are bad. I know that especially the town he went to is where you go if you want a freaking staff infection for your troubles. But he didn't listen to me and now he is suffering the the consequences. Why am I against vasectomy's. I believe in a higher power... and I believe that if you get pregnant it was meant to be. Vasectomy's just seem to spit in the face of the higher power to me. To say that you don't care what's meant to be, you know better. I have no problem with temporary birth control because I know that it can fail and if it fails it's meant to be. You did your best, oh well. But a Vasectomy is permanent and it just seems wrong to me. So, now he is worried that I'll leave him of cheat on him because he knows that someday I would like another kid. But, I told him I wouldn't do either of those. But, if I ever get financially stable I will go to a sperm bank. And I haven't told him about that yet because it's on a need to know basis. When I get there I will inform him of my plans and inform him that because he did this choice without caring about my feelings on the subject that I'm allowed to go to the sperm bank without his feelings on the subject. Lol