Chatting is Good Or Bad for us??????

India
March 25, 2011 12:16am CST
hello mylot friends, Nowadays Chatting is Being common to us, Many of us who uses Internet loves chatting with friends or with dear ones, but our seniors who cares about our future they recommend us not to do so because according to them it is just a consumption of time and also spoil our future, I want to say that with the help of chatting we can gain our typing speed as well as we can spend more time with our frnds. So is Chatting is good or bad for us ????????
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11 responses
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
25 Mar 11
Hello Ashish, welcome to myLot. Excess of everything is bad. Chatting is good when: - it increases our knowledge. - it gives us a chance to meet our friends and know their whereabouts. - it helps us in solving our problems. - it helps to overcome our tension/sadness/depression/anxiety. - it helps to make us refreshed. Chatting is bad when: - it is done in excess. - it prevents us from doing our other important tasks. - it becomes barrier in studies. - it becomes an addiction. - it compels us to get online despite other important works. So, chatting in itself is not good or bad -- we make it good or bad. Once again, welcome to myLot. Please do read the FAQ and guidelines of myLot. They are very helpful. http://www.mylot.com/o/faq.aspx
• India
25 Mar 11
Yes sir I am agree with you we cant say this is good or bad because in everything two effects are there good or bad, married or unmarried, pass or fail this is depend upon us how we can handle this or use this. No one can say chatting is good or bad the person how can they use and for what purpose they use this is depend upon it. Your reply is so nice but I think mylot will deleted this question because previous this type of two questions I was answering that but mylot sent notification and say the questions is deleted so your answer is also deleted.
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
26 Mar 11
Thanks Ms. Rathi, have a great day. Thanks Junapudiraj, welcome to myLot.
• Australia
25 Mar 11
Hi Ashish, Welcome to myLot. I think chatting with your friends and family members is absolutely alright because it keeps you updated about their lives. But spending hours on chatting with strangers and not focusing on your life can spoil your life in a great deal. i have a friend of mine who is always chatting even in his class. Chatting can be addictive, so we must be aware of the consequences and limit it accordingly. Happy MyLotting!
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
25 Mar 11
Hi sweetme, How are you doing? you are right, people spend hours on chatting and do not pay attention to other important tasks of life. Students nowadays are getting addicted to chatting and surfing that they are not paying proper attention to their studies. When they became aware of it, the time has gone and nothing can be done at that stage.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 11
Good bad things, or whatever we do, depending on how we use it, will be a good thing, if we use it well. It would be a bad thing, if we use for something bad.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
26 Mar 11
hi,when u have time then be with friends in the chat.Its not wasting time it is sharing ur loneliness and being together when u are alone.We are humans not robots elders do say it is time waste However we can get nice information when talking with each other.If not atleast we dont feel depress or loneyl for a while.
@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
26 Mar 11
Honestly speaking i don't have much time for chatting, i am busy in my own world of kids, grankids, kitchen, i chat with my sons and daughter only and with my hubby if he is out on long tour have never visited any chat room thanks for this discussion have a nice day cheers kalyani
• Malaysia
25 Mar 11
well, chatting is actually good for us. we could improve our english, increase our typing speed, and etc. beside that, we could make a lot of friend through social network for instance facebook and also mylot. if you say that chatting with other people in some places like restaurant, it will be a good thing for us too. it may increase our confidence while chatting to other, improving our english, or even communication skills.
• United States
25 Mar 11
I would have to say that chatting is good for us, because though we ourselves might not have been in a particular situation, maybe some one else we are chatting with, has. And with out talking to other people about things, how would we get a wider view of what people would want? In order to know what people's expectations are, you would have to chat and get to know them at least a little bit.
@cmang83 (285)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 11
From my point of view, if we didn't do this over, it is a positive activity. Not only can improve the typing skill but also can improve our language. Last time my English is really not good but after i spend 1 year in net chatting, my English is improve and now i can quarrel with people by using English, =p
• China
25 Mar 11
Chat is a very good way to make friends.Through chat,we can know more friends through Internet chat,we can always chat with good friends,sharing,talking about my topic through Internet chat,so we can improve the speed of typing,you can also get along with others that we exercise The ability,through the chat,we can get a lot of useful knowledge,so the Internet is good for us to chat..
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
25 Mar 11
For me it's good because chatting and facebook is probably the cheapest way to communicate with my friends who are abroad. I can't afford to call them everyday but I can chat. So for me it's a good thing but yeah being on the computer and chatting for 24/7 is not a healthy thing to do. Anything good, if done extremely, is not healthy.
• China
25 Mar 11
Hi friend, As far as I concerned,I think chatting is good.When I was chatting wuth other people,I can practise my tiping speed,I can get a lot of other people's thinking.I can absorb and use.I can get a lot of information from chatting,too.Haha~ Good luck,have a nice day.!