Friend what does it mean

@umabharti (3972)
India
March 27, 2011 11:54am CST
hi ,mylotters, Why do any one require friend in life.Do childhood friends last forever.Is friendship between a girl and a boy can be healthy.Does friendship last throughout our life for everlasting.Do any one have such friends.Will it change with the changes of life.
5 responses
@joystick (1675)
30 Mar 11
A friend is a person that do not ever stab another friend in the back also never repeat anything that the friend has said.A true friend is a person that we can trust with all that we tell them, also they never judge what we say.A friend is a person who you know you can talk to about anything no matter what and will always stay by your side in times of upset.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
12 Apr 11
hi, Sometimes a friend stabs another friend in the back ,quarrels and fights do come in between best friends , some situations happen to make them depart.We can not say or sure that a person would really be on ur side always.,its fortune to hav a person who keeps always on our side whether it is right or wrong.
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
"No man is an island." I believe this quote. There are times when we need to be alone but most of the time we need somebody beside us and that's what friends do.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
10 May 11
yes "No man is an island" we all need someone or the other to share .Some time friends do this some times other things do like good books .,pet animals, etc.,
@skydancer (2101)
• United States
27 Mar 11
In my experiences, friends come and go, and some will stay. It is highly dependent on our own wants, needs, and desires in a relationship and how it evolves and changes as we move through each chapter of our lives and continue to invent and discover ourselves. During childhood, usually we define our friends as the people we have the most fun with. As we get older, however, and our lives become more serious and our personalities begin to develop, the definition of a friend becomes a more complex one and more things get added to the equation besides just fun. This will cause some people to drift apart and others to become closer to you. This different, more mature way of connecting with people may even make you close to the kind of people you never could have imagined as a child. Sometimes new friends may even become closer than old ones as a result. As for me, friendship has never been my forte. I am still in touch with some of my childhood friends but only because they happen to be family friends - my parents are good friends with their parents, so we see and enjoy each other during family get-togethers and the like, but don't go out of our ways to see each other the way we used to as children. Other people I met as a child, I still see and get together with on occasion. Ironically, our relationship is still very much on a "childhood" level in many ways. It's not that we do childish things, but our relationship is still more based on having fun together than it is on sharing deep thoughts. They are very fun, nice, thoughtful people, but I wouldn't go to them for serious things because I feel they might not understand on the level that I need to be understood. Then I have some relatively new friends (meaning, friends I have made in the past decade). I consider these to be my closest emotionally, but I still have trouble opening up out of fear of how they might react. I have to take things very slowly and gradually so that I can be sure of what I can say to them and how to say it so that they won't take it the wrong way. I guess I am slowly getting the hang of this whole friendship thing, but if is difficult because sometimes I wonder if I am valued or if I am even good enough for these people (nothing to do with anything they've said or done - just an lifelong insecurity complex on my part.) So for me, there are different kinds of friends who play different roles at different times in your life. A very rare few of these will stay with you through anything and everything, and you will be able to count these on one hand most likely. Most people will probably only have one or two friends like that.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
4 Apr 11
hi, i made friends who helped me a lot in the online earnings , i was jsut a new comer with least knwledge regarding this concept.Many helped me however i was with a little fear of unknwn persons communicating ignored a lot and doubt a lot .,This was not my wrong it was becox i was not knwing ,ignorant about things ., i was online from 2007 i had only 10 people whom i knw whom i chat now and then,however i earned very less from online i had much experience in online things.Now no friends all seems to be offline alwasy.Is it really my mistake to loose friendship or is it becox i was reserved personality .Is it i was harsh and hurt them.,as i am female i avoided male gender to hav much communication however i hav onl one female as a online frind from those ten.As in india we are bound to somethings its not my mistake to hurt.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
27 Mar 11
Hi umabharti, everyone feel to have friends but all friends can't be our kind of friends may be one or two are will be from the childhood. All can't be there throughout our life but only few. Have a nice day/night.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
4 Apr 11
hi , yes all cant be friends to us, only some will be which are very close and which we feel that we shd always have them on our side.Childhood friends , i have only one friend and she is from best friend however some situations come when we cant decide whether they are doing good or bad for us.,
@donski (132)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
a friend is someone who is will be there for you, whether rain or shine, through life's ups and downs. Someone who is will accept you no matter who or what you are. Someone who will not betray you but comfort you in times of troubles.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
24 May 11
yes ur pretty sure.What u said is right , a friend is some one who is not bound by any thing.