Insecurities
By Toni
@toniganzon (77184)
Philippines
March 28, 2011 12:03am CST
Would you stay in a relationship full of insecurities?
I couldn't stand being with someone who's love I am not sure of. I hate wondering every single day if he's gonna stay or I'm gonna lose him. No matter how much I love that person I just can't be paranoid. Such insecurities would always eat you up and would destroy your life. You wouldn't be able to function well and it won't be healthy at all.
I am lucky to be in a relationship where I wouldn't have to question my husband's loyalty.
5 responses
@Harold_ks (1673)
•
28 Mar 11
I was been in that situation where I was not sure if she still love me or not, but despite of the pain and insecurities that I have felt, I kept my love and waited for her until time came that we've been in good times again. I was glad that I didn't give up and I still have her now. I'm looking forward to live my life with her forever. I'm happy for you that you have found one really faithful guy. Best wishes for your relationship. Have a nice day.
1 person likes this
@toniganzon (77184)
• Philippines
28 Mar 11
Patience is a virtue as they say! I'm happy that everything ended up well with you. Sometimes waiting and not giving up is good, but there are times when we should learn to let go and i'm glad that you found your happiness anyway.
@Harold_ks (1673)
•
28 Mar 11
Yes, I definitely agree. Patience is really a virtue. But yeah, not always the case, we should only wait and not give up for the right person, and I have taken all the pains and sufferings because I know she is really the one for me and time will come that we'll be in good terms again, and it happened. And one thing that is really important and should always be present, faith in God. :)
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
28 Mar 11
Hi dear,
Relationships will become precious when it compatible with each other. As you said, if we cannot assess the value of the other love and we are not still confirmed it, we will be disturbing with the instability of the same.
Thank-s
1 person likes this
@jennyze (7027)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 11
No, I would get out of any relationship where I always ask myself whether he really loves me. Like you, no matter how I love him, I don't want to feel insecure, so I would leave and try to forget.
Yes, you are lucky if you can be that secure in your husband love.
1 person likes this
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
28 Mar 11
That would be too difficult for me to deal with. I would not have to question on a daily basis if he loves me or loves me not. I could not deal with the insecurities.
I can't imagine it being a comfortable relationship.
