Ugly and Beautiful

@oiixdaii (1059)
Philippines
March 29, 2011 2:46am CST
Why is it that when you love someone everything you see is beautiful to that person even if you compare that person to a super model? I'm asking this because there is this girl that I love which I can't forget. I kept on saying to myself that I should forget this girl and be with this other girl who is super hot.
9 responses
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
as the old cliche goes "love is blind" but actually it sees but it doesn't mind. :) love has its ways of altering one's judgement, even reason, in fact!
@dznurani (160)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 11
that's right. love is blind that you'll hardly see the reason why you like her more than that super hot girl.
@yuriclar (28)
• Philippines
3 Apr 11
When you fall in love, that's it!You cannot control how you feel for that certain person. Sometimes we set standards on how we want our ideal partner to be. For example, I want a guy who is tall, fair skinned, with great body, smart, funny, talented, animal lover, God-fearing, family oriented and responsible. Too ideal, right?!But chances are this guy might not exist or if he does exist, it's either he's already taken or probably doesn't possess all the said qualities. I might end up with someone shorter that me, dark skinned but loves me so much and i love very much too!You see, when you're totally in love with that person, you're sense of reasoning is somewhat altered. Since you love that person very much, all you see are the good characteristics and you just learn to accept the negative ones. So forget the super hot girl!In time, she will be all aged and wrinkled and the lust you feel will fade. But with the girl you love, no matter how wrinkled she is you will still be in love with her!:)
@toniganzon (72317)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
Love is unconditional and when we love, we don't look at the person's negative abilities or physical condition. We only see the beauty in that person that others cannot relate. There is no impossible in love. Others would question why a 30 year old girl would fall for someone 20 years older than her. Well, that's what you call love. you really cannot fathom it or even describe it. It simply is an emotion that we feel without using our other senses.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
29 Mar 11
It strange right?? I had this high school sweet heart of mine, though we broke up already. I loved him a lot and found him to be the most handsome and had the world's best smile. But my friend they said he wasn't so very good looking, but for me he was, coz i was so madly in love with him. He had a great sense of humor by the way, which is a big plus point for me coz I like people with a good sense of humor. But yeah we ended up breaking up. Anyway life goes on But yeah I think you shouldn't stop loving her just because you want to be with someone hot. You cannot fool your heart.
@Janexiao (173)
• China
29 Mar 11
Haha, because you truelly love her, you can tolerate everything of her, whatever good or bad, and people can't forget the things they didn't get, so if it's impossible for you to be with her, try to think about something bad about her, then you may not love her that much.
@520662 (2)
• China
29 Mar 11
maybe you think the girl's looks is more important when you yong,but only the interal character is forever and invariable in your life
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 11
Because love is blind, love sees with heart not eyes. In time you will forget her.
@SIMPLYD (90727)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
So you are struck by love and did it make you blind? Well, when someone is in love, the apple of his eyes is the most beautiful for him. He is willing to sacrifice other things just so that she could have her. I wish you luck on this one!
@washor (113)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
That is the best explanation why love is blind. If you want to be happy you should follow what your heart's says. And with regarding with the super hot girl, maybe you just got infatuated by her looks. Listen to your heart my friend. Find someone who compliments your personality and who you can get along with everyday.