About loneliness.

Indonesia
November 19, 2006 9:27am CST
People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges. What do you think? Are you lonely?
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7 responses
@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
2 Dec 06
i build bridges,and i still feel lonely,maybe because the bridges are so fragile and they breake easily...or maybe people don't know how to cross them..life has taught me to build a wall from time to time in front of the people that don't understand me and that i really don't need around..i feel safer this way..
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• Denmark
2 Dec 06
i never actually found friends that could take away my pain,and the only one who can really reach my soul is my boyfriend,but my love for him is painfull also..everytime i feel lonely i talk to god,sometimes i ask him why,sometimes i ask for help,sometimes i just cry and tell him to make me forget,to help me forgive...to take that pain from my chest..i ask him where i go wrong...i think he helped me many times,even if he didn't do it the way i wanted or in that moment when i asked,but all the bad from my life eventually turned out to something good,and i have faith that it will go on like this:)
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• Indonesia
2 Dec 06
Only God could take away all your pains..Your friends and your boy friend can't do it. Thanks for sharing it..God will never leave you..
• Indonesia
2 Dec 06
Ha..ha..You build bridges, but no one cross it? How come? Maybe many people has crossed it..:) Honestly, I don't believe if many friends could make me free from feeling lonely..Only God can do it...
@Zhanec (1651)
• Malaysia
25 Dec 06
i am lonely,MrBaron..if not i wouldnt stick to mylot 24/7.U are right beacuse i'd bulit walls from the outsider..i'm not letting them in my world-as to protect myself.Don't persuade me to try to make a bridges,beacuse i tried and failed any times.sigh*
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• Indonesia
29 Dec 06
I don't want to persuade you to make a bridge. Just see many bridges that already built at myLot:) Maybe you could pass it and built some bridges to another island too...
@queenstan (383)
• Indonesia
20 Nov 06
I'm not lonely. But, I understand and agree with you. It's true that people makes themselves lonely.
• Indonesia
20 Nov 06
Yup..That's good. Thanks for your understanding. I really appreciate it.
@durenman (143)
• Indonesia
25 Nov 06
I agree with you. We made our life lonely. We choose it.
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• Indonesia
25 Nov 06
Yup..That's true. Thanks for the opinion. I really appreciate it.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
2 Dec 06
I think thoese who build bridges are more lonely because they tend to search for more things because they unhappy at the current spot and want to exlpore more for more things , in the end they will still be lonely ....
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• Indonesia
2 Dec 06
That's a good opinion..It made me thinking about it.. If they only focus on building the bridges, then It's true. But, if they build the bridge to the other bridge, it would be different..I guess..:)
@sharksfin (1091)
• Philippines
29 Dec 06
"I guess everyone has their reasons for keeping people away, an instinct to protect yourself from getting hurt. It's part of human nature." Both happiness and loneliness are choices. We can be happy with or without someone. There are people who rather stay away and protect themselves from future pain because they know that letting people in can cause so much pain .
• India
25 Dec 06
no i am not lonely. ya you are right People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges. i think loneliness is not good so be happy .