First love remains forever do you agree???

India
March 30, 2011 12:00am CST
Hello friends I am in love today with another girl after break up with the first one. but I cannot forget my first love when I go for dates with my new girl friend I just remind about my first love moments which we spent together. Is it also happens to you???
15 responses
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 11
Yes. I also felt the same way with you. My first love, I can never forget. Now I have been married, but my first love is still a beautiful memory.
• India
7 Apr 11
Please dont mind about the question I m going to ask you that is " What is your feeling at the time when you marry to someone else in front of your first lover, how could you gave up your dreams all the things you have to the new one to whom you have married, Did you feel uncomfortable, depressed or just crying or share with your married life partner"???????????
@doris227 (16)
• China
30 Mar 11
hmmm , it is ok you still remember her , cuz she is the one you love in first time . must be very special to you. but i guess if you new gf knows that , she will be angry . the best way is tell her truth ,and make her feel you are really care her . i got this feeling before , but now ,i just regard my first bf as a buddy friend. u know , if lovers didnot hurt each other intentionally, you are still good friends.so donot worry about that. will be fine soon .
• India
31 Mar 11
I have told my new girl friend about the first one and she have promised to help me in every step of my life but I dont know what would happen in the future because by present is still with my first love............
• United States
30 Mar 11
With time it does get better to deal with. First loves do take time to get over. In fairness to the new girl friend try your best to be objective and give her a chance because she may be the one. If you feel that you cannot reciprocate the feelings with her please make sure you honest with her right away. The longer you wait you may end up breaking her heart. As for the first love she will always remain a part of your memory.
• India
31 Mar 11
Thanks for your nice suggestion and I am also thinking the same as You.......
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
2 Apr 11
Yes first love never forget you in your whole life. Even your next lover or husband is so cute, lovable, caring etc but at least in the middle when you seat alone then you will remind all those happy days who spend with your first lover. But good think is if first love was painful then better way is forget everything and go ahead and enjoy life in new way. But what is this friend I observed in this week most of the disucssion is only on first love, electricity, criket match, books these week is for special week for this.
30 Mar 11
It is because you still comparing your previous girl to the present. That is why you still thinking of her.. You will eventually forget about her when you get use to your new girl.. Trust me..
• India
31 Mar 11
Thanks friend for your kind advice but believe me I m trying to forget her but I cannot do so I am totally depressed so plz suggest me what to do
• Beirut, Lebanon
10 Jul 13
go back to your first love. i advice all people to stay with their first love no matter the cost, because you won't know the real meaning before you lose them. they are the only truth. stick with them..remember the days when love was flowing, and stay that way, cancel the things that might ruin to it, and add the things that make it better
@Far525 (37)
• China
31 Mar 11
First love is beautiful and memorable. But life doesn't only mean love, we still need friendship,relatives, career and even children when we get married. So life should continue. Just keep yr first love in yr heart and go on yr love, go on yr life. I thought no matter any reasons of separation, yr ex-girlfriend also wishes yr happiness.
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
I don't believe that first love remains forever especially when the person who had his or her first love was really hurt because of the relationship. I believe that true love last forever but not first love. It is completely a different thing.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
30 Mar 11
Love comes and goes unexpectedly well, but his first love is even more important as it is full of joy, hope, illusion, and we feel more deeply, more beautiful, all those sensations are more intense and fill our lives sunshine and happiness, just because it happens the first time. First love is not a dream is a reality so beautiful. When a meet, you radically change makes you better, more beautiful, more upbeat, makes you see everything in vivid colors and realize that life is beautiful precisely because they feel this wonderful feeling, beautifies and brings us much love and warmth. Since his first love, usually we meet at an early age when we are just kids, it is pure, honest, childish, and often platonic, which is why it is so beautiful. At this age, adolescence, we do not know to lie, betray. We do not know that sometimes it's good to expose your feelings. We do what we feel, only love. Without thinking too much, and it is precisely its charm and is therefore not say first love never forget.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
31 Mar 11
uhhm well, my first boyfriend which was happened so long ago way back in high school was not really my first love, it is just i don't really know what love really is at that time. after my relationship with him, i told myself that i will not go for another relationship again unless i am ready and matured enough to get married, so when i fell in love with y husband i married him, and my love for my husband is growing everyday, but still i cannot forget the time how i fell in love with him and how i we let that love grow even in distance, and he is my first love.
• Indonesia
30 Mar 11
Ya....I have ever feel it before, how hard to forget the firs love, perhaps all people have experienced the ame thing. But life must be continue.... we just live our life and love as it is. Right?
@revtee (30)
31 Mar 11
Yah I strongly feel for this....first love always remains first love!!!!! I started loving him at a very early age!!!! And whatever love I had in me I had given him all...!!!! He ditched me twice and trust me I try to hate him so much but just cant. I dont know why I dont even get attracted to other boys....thinking of a relation comes far behind...!!!!!! I seriously want to get over with it! I even try not to talk eith him but just can't control myself!!!! An d all of this happens because he was my FIRST LOVE!
@dznurani (160)
• Indonesia
30 Mar 11
I think so, it's just that I don't know which one is my first love lol but I remember every man I have ever dating with :)
• Philippines
30 Mar 11
oh yes this has happened to me, though it's more of a first heartbreak since he didn't love me.But those first love memories can still make you smile. It was those times when everything was new & sweet, you feel you're just like in the movies & books. Now you have something to compare with. Congrats & hope you move on & not let a past love get in the way of the present.
@misc11 (384)
• United States
30 Mar 11
Your first love is very special. It is so new and feelings so fragile. It makes me smiles as I type to think about it. It is good for everyone to have their heartbroken. Think about how much different you are now from your first love and how much more you know because of it.