Qualities that make a woman a heartbreaker?
By katie0
@katie0 (5203)
Japan
March 31, 2011 9:36pm CST
I think if she is really her self, meaning she loves her self, accept her self and is self confident she is a heartbreaker, she is like this light that shines through even among a million others. Guys soon notice her and sometimes make other women jealous.
I think the most important quality is really be natural, no plastic surgery, no 'learning' how to be sexy and stuff like that that only sells magazine, but until now I haven't found a drop of truth cause they say do this and do that but the truth is magazines only teach us to seek for man, do what they want, what they like and that brings the old 40's women back for example, where women weren't so free to divorce for example, cause society excluded them.
I think what makes a woman a heartbreaker is being her self, meaning, being natural, no human being is like another and if we all embraced our uniqueness there wouldn't be fashion, copies, there wouldn't be fakes. It would be a really [b]beautiful world.
3 responses
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
quite true.. it's better to be true to yourself, not imitating others or following what others dictate her to be. a real heart-breaker for me is a woman of essence with a very pleasing personality and having a mind of her own...
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@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
i hope so too my dear, lol! probably you're a heart-breaker....
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
1 Apr 11
Well by heartbreaker I mean when it end a relationship, yes. Even who breaks up be sad cause we really end up caring about the person we are dating but if it will never get to marriage, if there's not love can't waste time I guess.
I bet you are too. You Obe 212003 seems a very original person!
I added you as friend.
Kisses!
@jennyze (7027)
• Indonesia
1 Apr 11
Yes, be yourself and love yourself that's the key. If someone loves herself, she would rise above others who have problem accepting who they are. It's not mainly look, it's also body language and how you carry yourself among others. When you are unique, people will start to look at you.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
1 Apr 11
You said it all, the smile and the eyes, indeed! These two are the most beautiful thing in a person.
There was this time I found this guy handsome, actually... gorgeous! My girlfriends, about 2 or 3 of them said: How can you date him? He is so ugly.
I didn't feel humiliated or ashamed of him, he protected me, he fought to be with me, he was great and for me when I met him I found him normal but when I saw the way he was I found him handsome. Once I also dated this guy who was a little overweighted, I break up those friendships, I don't like shallow girls but then I remind about what they would say about this guy, and I find so stupid... He was a real gentleman, really nice to me.
I also am not attracted at all for Brad Pitt, as he cheated on Aniston, as I think he is cocky and not natural at all in his way to be. I don't find him not even 1%. I have different eyes, so many girls got into a guy in school for example but since I was little I didn't see nothing in some of them :p
For me the inside is soooooooooo important.
My favorite celebrity and that I think it's a Fox is Michael J.Fox. He is not all muscles, don't even is tall but I found him amazing, absolutely. I'm a fan like since I was 5 and never changed. He's an amazing human being, and he's just been featured as second in a top 10 list of the most trustable celebrities :p
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
1 Apr 11
How beautiful!
Naturallity is really beautiful, most humble peopl are like that. They know the good things in they, the bad, they know their selves and accept it. So they be that uniqueness that it's so hard to find nowadays and the person is absolutely unforgetable,
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
a quality that makes a woman a certified heartbreaker if
1. she knows how to make her man fall in love with her
2. she knows how to take care of her man to make him feel secure
3. she knows how to handle her man's like and dislike
4. she knows how to leave him when he is totally head over heals in love with you
definitely a lady heartbreaker is cool but heartless
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
1 Apr 11
Those are some qualities! For heartbreaker I mean more of a woman that can have all man she wants, but not a cheater or things like that. I think natural women always make their heads turn around, you know those who doesn't 'try' anything. I can recognize women that try to be sexy as soon as I enter a room...that is no sexy, it's fake and all women can feel it and the man I'm sure can't fall deeply in love to fake, same as women, fake man like Brad Pitt, I don't think he is natural at all, he changed to much his way, I'm sure he acts in a way to be more sexy (wich I don't think so) but really don't feel natural.
@xien2xien (1382)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
i really think woman who will remain natural as to themselves can't get all the man they ever wanted... unless this woman is naturally fashionable, pretty, sexy, and everything. but if your a woman, whose wearing a jeans and shirt, chubby and ugly, even if you're as natural as you are you can't get all the man the you wanted
