If a girl confest to you?

@axlrate7 (1398)
Philippines
April 1, 2011 9:53am CST
I remember my high school day, a classmate of mine confess to me about her special feelings to me, and what she act when she see's me. She said to me everything good about me and to tell the truth, I really don't have the same feeling about her, I just want her to be my friend but not on the thing that she wanted. So I become honest to her and I said, Ok thank you for being like me, same with you I like myself too. To be honest, I can't handle such things like this. Did this situation happened to you?
9 responses
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
Girls are generally less aggressive than guys are so it really takes a lot of courage for girls to actually do this kinds of confession, but they do happen and it happened to me, too. I also turned it down for some reason I forgot. Some guys couldn't accept this and would go to symptoms of depression such as aggression, which could be dangerous but I never heard of the same happening to a girl yet. Usually, they just cry and turn fat. Hahaha! Just kidding!
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@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
Yeah, that's what I also wondering, many girl today become fat...
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
1 Apr 11
Oh yes it has happened to me a few times. Some turned out good, some didn't. There was this guy, we weren't really friends actually. Just in the same level but we didn't speak much. One day his friends came to me and told me that he liked me. I was like because when people confess and if i don't have the same feeling, i feel really bad and don't know what to say. I told him I didn't feel the same way but we could be friends. But no he didn't wana be friends with me and then this huge war started btween us. when i think of it now, it was pretty childish and makes me wanna laugh , it pretty much makes him wana laugh too i think LOL
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
2 Apr 11
You know there are times that honesty makes you some enemy in your surroundings. That's why it really hard for me to say an honest thing when I know someone can't face the truth. Anyway, thanks for the share thatgirl3, hmmm.... I just wondering... What's behind thatgirl13????
• South Korea
3 Apr 11
You mean what kind of person I am??
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
I mean why you pick the screenname thatgirl13..??? Is there any explanation about that??? I'm just curious.., =D
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
2 Apr 11
Only to stay together if the feeling is real, even if for a while, for example being passionated but if it isn't love it will go away.
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
2 Apr 11
Yeah I see what are you telling about... Anyway, thank you for sharing... =)
@wadabski (761)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
Yeah if a girl confess her feelings to me, I would appreciate it but it will still depend on what I feel. I refuse to take advantage of girls this way. If I like the girl though then I would also tell that the feeling is mutual and see where things go from there.
@wadabski (761)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
It is all for the formality due.. Dont you believe it. (joke man)hehe.
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
Nice heart you have there dude. That's really nice not to take advantage a situation like that. I salute with your kindness and respect. Keep it up! =D
• Oman
2 Apr 11
Dude, I find myself on your boat. I remember those times when my readers (ladies at that) would confess to me and appreciate my stories and articles which I publish in our university. They would come up to me and confess or reveal their inner feelings. I appreciate such gesture but I say straight to their eyes that we can be friends as I continue to inspire you with "my pen." Being a highly principled-man, I work out on goals which I set for a successful life ahead. I tell them right away that I am not committing to any relationship yet not until I reach the age of 28. Its a sad thing to accept but its reality. Many say its my loss but I say its my gain!
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
2 Apr 11
You did what is right men. Continue being so dedicated in your goal whatever it is. I also doing my best right now to fulfill my goal in the future, so GOD BLESS dude and thank you for the share! =D
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
oohhh yes, i got this guys always look at me like he wanted to eat me, and when my graduation he confess that he really likes me but i said, i am sorry but i can't i don't have any feelings about you and i decided to go far away to have my college and i know he will be doing the same... and after that when i was in college he is there again and he said he have to follow me so i can say yes. But i said NO.. and am not in the mood to have a bf right now.. am too busy and i don't like you. that's it and some of my friends say he is always drunk... so i was so disgusted well i have my life so i have to move on.
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
Hello lovebugjess, it's okay to refuse when you really don't like to someone even though they are so consistent in their intentions. I'm not that good in handling a situation like this but I always think a way out to refuse and also not to hurt the feeling at the same time. I see that you are a dedicated and hard working person, so keep it up. =D
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
making everything clear about where the person stands in your life is always important in any relationship. If you don't see yourself being in a relationship with the person who confessed to you, better not give him/her false hope and tell it to her/his face. It's better for you to be on the same page instead of being accused of leading him/her on.
@DanaS2011 (351)
• United States
1 Apr 11
Many men do this to me Gladly I have a boyfriend as an excuse to make it easier to let someone down. lol you told her you like yourself too lol Good one but do you think rejecting her will really make her give up or stop wanting you.If this continue will you try to avoid her? If I was you I would tell her again if she came on to you again then if she didn't get the hint when I tried to let her down easy i would just tell her that we can't even be friends because her feelings are disrupting our friendship
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
1 Apr 11
Yes I agree with what you say, totally I want to tell her on that time directly that I don't want her special feeling for me, all I want is friendship, but at the same time it makes me feel bitter to hurt a feeling of a girl. It so hard to me on that time.
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
2 Apr 11
This happened to me from a good friend who I hung out with all the time. It was kind of awkward when it happened because I didn't want to avoid such a good friend. He's always there for me and I'm there for him. He emailed me with his confession, and wrote in the end that if I don't feel the same way about him, please just ignore the email and pretend I never read it. I did as he said, but I still wonder if I should have talked to him about it. It's good to be honest. People get over these things, and if they don't it is not anyone's fault. It is just a problem that the person will face, if not with your honesty then someone else's honesty.
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
2 Apr 11
Thank you for your response sashakiddo, and I agree with what you said that it's not anyone's fault if they don't get it over. Being honest makes someone to think that your'e so mean by not giving back of what they are expecting. But because of being honest, you know in your heart that you did the right thing. =D Happy mylotting!
• Indonesia
2 Apr 11
to be honest i exprienced this there's a girl who confess her feelings to me she said that she got a crush on me when she sees my facebook profile and thus adding me as her friend in her facebook profile but i think it's just prank that was made to me becoz...well.....in this cruel world....how can a person loves the person they didn't know from the start just by watching their facebook profile ? after approving her friend request...she always liked to chat with me....and the day comes...SHE REALLY CONFESSED HER FEELINGS TO ME THROUGH HER CELL PHONE.....and thus i accepted her confession. we shares our interest,problems,dillemma via facebook chat until we finally meet each other @airport (she wanna have a vacation to my hometown) and we are getting very close and do some intimate stuff like HUGGING and KISSING up until now...i still mantain my relationship with that girl and grew even closer. now that's what i called LOVE LUCKY. haha sorry for my bad english
@axlrate7 (1398)
• Philippines
2 Apr 11
What a nice story you got there! Very interesting. Well, you are a very very blessed man. =D