Someone love you but you're not feeling them, what would you do?

@Citychic (4071)
United States
April 5, 2011 4:10pm CST
You are feeling sexy, single , happy and at peace with the universe. When all of a sudden someone appears in your life and tell you that they are totally in love with you and that it's love at first site. As a matter of fact this person is nothing like what you had imagined ur perfect match would be. You and they are so different but the more you shun this person away, the more attractive you become to them. So what would you do?
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14 responses
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
I would probably tell him that I have a fiancee already and he better look elsewhere 'coz he stands no chance with me. Hope this helps.
@paula27661 (15871)
• Australia
6 Apr 11
It seems to me that the more females shun males away the more they chase them! It is a male thing I think. Having said that I do think it is only fair to tell the person, without beating around the bush that you do not feel the same for them and avoid encouraging the person in any way. It is not easy but you haveto be honest…
@anna18 (142)
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
sweet words and kind acts may deceive you of what is real. don't jump into conclusion right away. times had change and so are the people around. just be careful...
• India
6 Apr 11
I will advice just try to love that person :). it's better to love somebody who loves you. rather than finding somebody for you to love..after sometime, chances are like that you are attracted to that person.there are chances that you will start loving that person too.
@jennyze (7044)
• Indonesia
6 Apr 11
I would run far away from the guy. Time will test whether he is sincere in his feeling. Many in Indonesia now, guys are targeting on mature woman who are independent, have a source or sources of income but still single. After marrying her for a year or two, getting some of the woman's richness then they will either disappear or divorce the woman. He would re-appear in some other city and doing this process all over again. So, sexy, single, happy and at peace with the universe women, beware...
@voldrox (7200)
• India
6 Apr 11
Citychic, long time.. After two years of my relationship, my girlfriend lost her feelings.. I don't know why and now, i don't give her a damn.. Coz i had never done anything wrong. In fact she has some other shoulder to cry upon, i guess. Guess i was too good for her. She always said that.
• China
6 Apr 11
I come across a six years ago, I love her very much. but unfortunately she doesn't like me, evry time I say to her "I love you and to be my girl friend ok?"she always say she didn't want to double, so now I am single and she single. I wait her but I don't know she wait who.
• China
6 Apr 11
Tell him the feeling of you. If they really love you they know how to do. Otherwise, kick him out.
• Taiwan
6 Apr 11
If you have a good relationship with the person that loves you and he or she looks pretty good, then I would say give it a try. If it doesn't work out then you will both return back to base 1.
@DanaS2011 (352)
• United States
5 Apr 11
This is scary and i have had this happen to me many time. My method is to keep pushing that person away until it finally works sometimes you have to just be flat out straight forward if you want someone to completely understand or feel where you're coming from especially if youre not feeling this person
• India
5 Apr 11
what can i say if i dont love her? i skip her.
@LeighB (700)
• Thailand
5 Apr 11
If you were feeling happy and at peace before this person entered your life and you keep shunning them away, it is obvious that there is no connection from your side. Some people love the chase and the more you shun them the more they do to try and win you over. be careful, this could turn out to be a dangerous situation. I would let friends who are close to you, know what is happening and that you are not interested in this person and also, if it continues notify the police. The last thing we want you to be is victimised, hassled and continually pestered so that you feel under threat where ever you go.
• Philippines
5 Apr 11
If he's not getting your subtle way of saying that you are not interested in him and if it starts annoying you, why don't you tell him point blank that he don't stand a chance and the feeling is not mutual? Some people just don't get it unless the real score is spelled out in their face. If he won't stop, that's annoying bordering to scary already.
• United States
5 Apr 11
there is not such thing as love at first site, maybe your a pretty girl who someone is attracted to at first site, but love is a little more that looks and lust, thats just my opinion any way. hope it all works out for the best with your situation.