I don;t even have time for myself!!try to understand ppl..!

@amelly (1554)
Malaysia
April 5, 2011 7:24pm CST
im very busy lately with assigment and the coming exam..everything is happening so fast now!!geezz...at the same time my guy friend don;t want to talk t me because of a small incident and to make things worse..my boyfriend blame me..he said that he can;t share stuff with me anymore..... it makes my life such a mess at the moment..and the garde i got for my test and quizzez are not the normal one..guys..please give me confidence and luck to face my exam and all these disturbing things...]
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
6 Apr 11
Hi. amelly. I understand how you are feeling. I am feeling overwhelmed too. I can't wait until my kids get out of school for the Spring Break and for the Summer Break too. When they both get home from school, I will make sure that my door is closed so tightly. I don't want to talk to anyone at all. I have to work online, especially at myLot. Then they both have to get up in the mornings to go to school as well. It is just so crazy. You will be okay. Just trust in God and relax. Set time aside to study, and keep your mind focused, by reflecting on pleasant issues. He will give you peace over understanding. And the problem that you are having with your kids will go away too. God will make things better for you. Don't worry.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
11 Apr 11
yup..i need to have some faith in myself
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
I've been through one of the toughest league of my life and that's the last three months of the semester. I have to make three research proposals, three interviews, two case studies, three creative reports or video presentation, two speeches, and a panel discussion. So little time,yet so much things to do. And I have a lot of exams to take, I really wanted to shout,"INFO OVERLOAD" at my professors. But I'm glad I have passed such hellish months. I have submitted my case study, the last requirement for this semester, and all I have to do now is wait for my grades. You can do it! There are people who also feel the way you do, or even worse. Prioritize things and have an end in my mind. But of course, do not forget to breath and pause for awhile.:) Good luck!
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
7 Apr 11
wow..that;s a lot...well..i think u handle it better than i am..
• Philippines
6 Apr 11
Just focus on your studies. Don't mind other disturbances, just study your @ss off and you'll do fine during your exam.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
7 Apr 11
yup..that's what i want to do now..forgot about what other said and i only want to succeed in the coming exam
• United States
6 Apr 11
I find it comforting to think of all those who have it rougher than me. And I'M A Rodent! But seriously, just breathe and focus on one problem at a time. Plus, be nice to rats, it brings luck!
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
7 Apr 11
yeah..i guess so...thanks again
• China
6 Apr 11
I think you must ajust you mood first.I advise you stopping do anything now and give youself a one day's vacation. During this day, you just enjoy youself without any displeasure bothering you. So i think you would feel happy again and forget anything after this vacation.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
7 Apr 11
im more calm today..i laughed a lot with my housemate last night and i try to loose up..
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
6 Apr 11
I'm really sorry to hear all that you are going through. I hope that your exam goes well and that you are able to get the grades that you want for them. Study hard (without overwhelming yourself :)) and take breaks. If you like coffee and there's a starbuck's or coffee shop near by treat yourself. I hope things improve with your boyfriend and guy friend as well. They both in time will forgive you, I mean that's what friends are for. Just give them time and in the mean time treat yourself and study.
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
7 Apr 11
well..my campus is like..in the middle of nowhere and finding a starbuck is kinda impossible...huhuhu..as for my friend..i think i'll let him cool down for some time
@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
6 Apr 11
Amelly, I think you just need to give yourself some credit for what you are doing, and just push forward with what you need to do. Your main focus should be your studies, then fix things with your boyfriend. If the thing with your boyfriend is preventing you from focusing on your studies then tell him that you really need to have some type of resolution to it because you aren't able to focus. If he really cares for you he would want you to succeed with your studies and not want to interupt them. Life throws us many curve balls, and we just have to learn how to take them and move on. When you are studying try putting everything else out of your mind, and don't psyche yourself out that you aren't able to do it. Just remind yourself that this too shall pass, and just think that tomorrow can always be a better day. I wish you the best of luck.