Playing with children is great, but it's hard to feed them.

Playing with kid - I like playing with kids but I don't want to feed them
Vietnam
April 6, 2011 11:43pm CST
Do you agree with me? I have not had some kids. But I have a nephew. I love him very much. I like to play with him. So, I visit him every week. I spend 2 or 3 hours for playing with him. It's a great time. However, I feel that if I must care him day by day, I'll feel hard and tired. I think it's right when I see his mother. I love playing with kids, but I don't want to feed them.
14 responses
@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
7 Apr 11
The great thing about being an aunt is you get to play with your nieces and nephews and when your done you can give them back. I love mine dearly, but I don't have the patience for it fulltime. Best Wishes!
• United States
7 Apr 11
So true sswallace! The fun when one knows they are coming over then the relief when they go home. Glad to hear you enjoy your nieces and nephews.
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
Right. Children make us feel fun and happy. But they make us to be up set, too. Anyway, I want to have some children in the future, of course.
• China
8 Apr 11
hahahah......it's true.i agree some.sometimes play with them for some hours is a hard job also.i am a teacher.i saw so many kids in different ways already.when i look at them,i will be full of love and hate in the same time for their behaved and unbehaved action.so i wonder whether i can be a good mum for my kids in the future.but of course,the most important thing is earning money for their birth:)god,i guess it's expensive to give a birth of baby ? so i hope i can earn some money from mylot for that... Lol....
• Vietnam
11 Apr 11
Hi my friend, Wish you can earn enough money on Mylot. I used to a tutor. So, I know feelings of a teacher.
@Angel3yes (455)
• United States
7 Apr 11
Other than sometimes being exausted by the time she leaves, I love spending time and playing with my neice. But table manners weren't taught by the time she starting eating real food so now feeding her like a normal person is practically impossible. She'll take a bite of food and then run away and come back five minutes later for another bite. It takes an hour to get her to eat a half a meal. Her mother never used a high chair or anything so its impossible to get her to use one now or even sit at the table. She'll squirm and struggle the whole time!!
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
01 hour is quite short when we must feed children, my friend. I saw my sister feed her son. She must run following him during meal, because my nephew is very playfully. He only eat when he is playing with toy or running around.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
7 Apr 11
Tell me about it... it is not easy to feed myson, I have to sing, make funnny faces to make him eat, when he is a happy camper, he eats; if he is not, he scream and refuses it. Even though he gets bored with eating very quickly and will stop so I'm still figuring out how to get him to eat better.
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
It take much your time, right? I'm sure that you must be very patient, if not, you can't care your son in the best way. Wish you and your son are happy!
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
You are right feeding them is very hard, specially when they don't like the food, you need to let them be hungry first so that they will eat, and don't let them eat candies or sweet foods when meal time is near for the more they don't like to eat then.
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
You have much experience in about this issue Thank you for your response.
@estine71 (15)
7 Apr 11
Yes its hard to feed them! But thats what parents do best... when you give birth to that child nothing is too hard to do for them. You just have that parental instinct to protect and to nurture, that is why you never give up. I play games whith my child while i feed her, for instance she would be driving up and down on her little motorbike, and she must get "fuel" from me (food) every time she passes and so on...
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
I like your idea about parents' instinct! We don't know how to care children until we have had them, right?
@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
7 Apr 11
Having children is defiantly an adventure, everyday is something different. It can be tiring having children, espically for those who are the sole caregivers for their children. Entertaining children can sometimes be the easy part, the feeding is were it gets rough, at least for me it is. My oldest daughter is a very picky eater, luckily the youngest doesn't yet get a choice of what she eats since she is only 2 months old. But sometimes my daughter isn't the problem, I then have to deal with my picky eater husband also. So the days can be long and tiring, but they are defiantly rewarding.
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
You must be patient and loving them very much
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
I am a mother of 4 and my third child is really hard to feed. Though, I don't worry that much about their litters but it is the feeding that really gets me. Yes, sometimes, I wanted to say I quit. But, I just couldn't because I love her and her siblings, too. This is maybe the reason why some wouldn't want to have kids. They love kids but they can't have the patience they need to really take care of those little tykes 24/7. But as parents, you need to be patient.
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
I think that all parents are the same you. They always try how to care their children in the best ways. Moreover they're sometimes very tired about them. All things because they love their children more than themself.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
Feeding kids is really a hard job, I would agree with that. I too have a nephew who lives just next to our house so I really know how it feels like to be feeding him. We would really get mad at him and worry as well for he really looks thinner now because he prefers to play than eat. Even if he is taking vitamins, he still doesn't like to eat. I too enjoy so much playing with him for he is such a cute boy and he's my only nephew.
• United States
7 Apr 11
Feeding and raising them are the hard parts in my opinion. Playing with them is the easy part. Children can be entertained on virtually any level. But feeding them is a highest task. Trying to figure out why they like and do not like certain foods can be mind boggling. It does in the end have it's wonderful rewards. I have two of my own and love every minute. It is good that you help out so mother can take a break every now and again.
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
I realize that almost people here are mothers. Love helps you care your children patiently and day by day. I hope that I'll be a good mother like you.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
Children could really be fun! Playing would them though would entail lots of stamina, specially if they like running. But they are simple ones. But feeding them? OMG it's really difficult. Good if the child is not picky with foods. But if he/she is a picky one, it would shorten my patience.
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
It's hard if we must care a child, right? Children are usually playfully. We must be very patient to play with them.
@annapplez (208)
• Australia
7 Apr 11
Too bad I don't have that choice, I suppose I gave birth to them, so I probably should feed them lol. It is super tiring: playing, feeding, changing nappies. I'm always tired. At least you get to hand them back at the end of the day.
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
I believe that you're as happy as tired, ha ha. I have not just had children. But I'll get married in the next time. I'll feed some kids, of course. Children are cute no matter what.
• Philippines
7 Apr 11
It's hard to feed them when they aren't hungry yet. Try to know when they are really hungry and it wouldn't be that hard. Feeding time must be fun too for them. Besides, your patience will really be tested if you are dealing with children. Try to have new techniques, maybe.
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
We need some techniques to feed children?
@dlemza (47)
• South Africa
7 Apr 11
You sure have to wrap that bunddle of flexible tiny tender muscles kinda tight when you feed them. Specially when it is the hyper energetic baby, unless you opt to wear protective clothing which you will take off after feeding. Toddlers eat only when they are hungry, mess up when they full. Until they get to grips, let them be, it's excactly where we all began this journey. Agreed?
• Vietnam
8 Apr 11
I don't know clearly about this because I have not had any children.