Feel sad

India
April 9, 2011 1:13pm CST
When you feel sad, what - do you want to continue with the same mood for some time more or you wish to change to a fresh and out of it as early as possible, if yes/no, why? Thank-s
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@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
11 Apr 11
I don't like to remain sad for long period of time. I don't like the feeling of it because it makes me cry. Crying might be good way to vent my frustrations, my stress, but the after effects is even worse than those stuff i've been keeping inside my heart. Going for runs will be a better alternative for me, sweating it out than letting it out in the form of tears.
• India
30 Apr 11
A cry is not a solution for any problems. Still, some time it sooth our mind at times when we are passionate to our own feelings. Thank-s
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• China
10 Apr 11
No one wish to stay sad, I will choose to get out of this bad mood. Try youself positive is smart way. The mood is not good,does any matter, looked that any matter is inconvenient. So, just keep optimistic, and you will find that everything is easy.
• India
11 Apr 11
Hi dear, Nice suggestions. Still, he would come to us sometime even without any invitation. It is his speciality and he will just appear without considering who, what and when etc. Handling his is the way to learn and if we could manage to pacify the feelings of sadness, we will won and thereby we can take him out. But in most situations, we will enter into us, do his work and slowly get away from our minds. So, if we cooperate nicely with sadness, it won't give us much pain. What you say? Thank-s
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
hi thanks, as much as possible i get out of that emotion. maybe i cry it out first for a few minutes (depending on how severe the depression is to me) then i go out call friends and we bond together so i could forget how sad i am. no use sulking, right? ann
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi Ann, Life is always with the mix of sad and happy times. Always sadness is a symbol of negative arrow, we need to to turn up intentionally to the right direction, which make life more precious and beautiful. Still, it is life and we may have to face such moments sometime, which is natural and to face it and courage and strength to overcome such situations are to be rightfully obtained. Thanks for your comments. Thank-s
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Apr 11
hello thanks, When i feel sad,i cried myself and calm down. I never let sadness drown me and ruined my whole day. It is normal that we feel sad,but don't let sadness spoils the rest of your time when you can give smile to people who loves and cared for you. See how you can make those sadness turn into cheers,we never knew if we can still smile tomorrow,since we don't hold what happens in the next hours of our lives. Or,we never knew if can still see and smile to those people around us the next moment...cause life is like a shadow...we could see shadow when there is light...when darkness comes, suddenly...shadow disappear...and that is life. Keep smiling and life will smile at you
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi Jai, You said it! Sadness is always accompanied with us, we don't know when the light and darkness comes to our life. Just like what you said, happiness and sadness are a mix with different proportions. It varies depend on situations and when we feel sad, we should not spend life with it because it is part of our life, and the thing infront of us make our feelings better and we would become normal when time passes by. Thank-s
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@prabu03 (175)
• India
10 Apr 11
yes we can refresh but dont feel sad i am get sad i am go to some cam place that gives me freshness and ill be happy
• India
11 Apr 11
HI dear, Getting refreshed with new thoughts and forget about the sadness is the best way out of such mood. We have to do it and a change from whatever and wherever we are is one easy way of of such moody situations. Thanks for your comments. THank-s
@betty110 (66)
• China
10 Apr 11
When I feel sad, I would rather go outside for a refresh. To find a place, such as a park, where I can see the natural beauti, and it will make me feel peace. Or go to a shopping mall, to do some window shopping, that will make me forget some unhappy things for a while.
• India
11 Apr 11
Hi Betty, Your though is good. Whenever we feel lonely we would like to get away from such mood and try to get into involve in something different. That involvement really make us entertained with something else and slowly we will slip way from our sadness. Thanks for your comments. Thank-s
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
22 May 11
Hi Thanks! The funny thing about feeling sad is that we have the tendency to lull ourself into more sadness by playing sad music while we cry! Hahhaahah! There is always this wish to change to a fresh beginning and start anew, this is always the right attitude.
• Mexico
9 Apr 11
Hi thanks: When I am feeling sad I try to do an activity like reading or doing some exercises to feel calmed again. I try my best not to pay attention or ignore the things that are making me suffer , if it's necessary I talk to someone to feel better again. I also pray to feel liberated from this charge. ALVARO
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi dear, You are right. Our involvement in something else and divert the mind to something interesting make the situation light and cool. There may be times we tempted to come out of it but we feel stay on with how we are (not in everyone's case). A travel, music, talk to someone etc make us feel better. But depend on the seriousness with the topic, there may be the hang around with us, which is natural and it will take time to become totally independent. Thanks for your comments and have a nice day, Thank-s
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
9 Apr 11
Hi thanks I would try to get out of that mood as soon as possible. Because being sad and feeling gloomy, I know that it will harm me much more than others. I play on the few songs that I have on the pc or even watch a movie or even have a bath... all of these kind of refreshes me. But there are still times, when the sadness doesnt go and I put it out here at MyLot. Quite many of my discussions are proof of what I say here.
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi Sid, Yes, sadness is a symbol of negative indication and people would try to get out of it as soon as possible. Also, as you said, we would purposively involve in anything so as to indulge in something and there by will will slowly get out of the mood. All it depends, it seems that whenever people feel sad, they want to come out of it at any cost and a few variety people sometimes enjoy the sadness by keep alone and weep with despire. I have felt that your discussions and topics have the reflections depend on your moods. Thank-s
@Suzieqmom (2755)
• United States
9 Apr 11
It depends on what I am sad about. If it is just a sort of yucky day, and I am just sort of down, I'll give myself a few hours to be lazy and then I will force myself to "perk up" and get motivated again. If it's a momentary thing, like a sad movie, then I will cry for a couple of minutes, and then completely let it go. However, if I am mourning the loss of a friend or family member, then I will allow myself to be sad for awhile so that I can properly work through my feelings and recover from the loss. That does not mean I stop living, however; it just means I am more introspective for a period of time. I think it is important to stick to your routine and get through each day by accomplishing something no matter how sad or drained you may feel--it helps get over the feelings of grief or loss.
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi dear, Rightly worded and well said. All we need to do is accept the pain and when time moves on, we slowly recover from it, may be the cause is silly or serious. Everything is limited by time and as and when we come out if the severity, we will become normal and the loss or sadness will overtake by our routine works. The main cause is we need to accept certain things which are happening around we may week for sometime whenever we feel sad. The interactions and involvements would reduce the impact and we will slowly move into normal life, which is the principle of life. Thanks for your comments. Thank-s
@nishant5n (1067)
• India
10 Apr 11
Feelings of sadness is not good for mind and body. It also affects our overall development, so whenever I am sad I try to get rid of that feeling ASAP. I would get out of my home to go to meet some friends or go out to have a walk in my colony. I try to just forget that thing and tries to freshen up myself so that I can prepare myself for other important things in life.
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi dear, You rightly said. Get out of such situations are the need of the time and got into involve with other things make more energized. Feel good and forget about the sadness is the right way for a better life. Still, some feelings of sadness which make our mind so slender and the time only can heal such moments when it is so hurting and touching. Thanks for your comments. Thank-s
@niq993 (50)
• Bulgaria
9 Apr 11
It depends of how sad I am. If it isn't too deeply, I listen some music,take a bath and try to think positive. But sometimes I don't want to change anythings,my sadness becomes a indifference,I just stay and do nothing,or in the worst case- I just cry. It happens rarely and I need couple days to pass it over. Usually, my mood changes with some music .
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi dear, Thanks for your comments. You are right. Deep sorrow and sadness will stay long and nothing can make any difference for a period of time till we get recovered from it. It will take its own time and slowly our mental conditions will become normalised. As you said, the cry is the sudden relief and it sooth our mind lightly and give relaxation. Thank-s
@DChow102 (25)
• United States
9 Apr 11
It all depends on how deep the feeling is for me. If I haven't had this sad feeling in a while and it helps me relax and free myself, then I would keep the feeling a little while. After it's all gone, start afresh!
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi dear, Thanks for your comments. Yes, most of the time, it depend on how sad the reason for sadness which depends how fast we recover from it. Many are of the type that once they caught by such sadness, they will try to interfere with other things to get out of such situations. As you said, once we mingle with others and involve with different matters the intensity goes down and we will become fresh enough. Regards, Thank-s