You keep on saying ...
By sunnycool
@sunnycool (12714)
India
April 10, 2011 12:21am CST
I have gone through one discussion few moments back ... i come accross this comment which says one has to keep on saying "I LOVE YOU" to their spouse to save their relationship!
Does that mean those three words are sort of root cause for a relationship? Is it that couples who have been married for years ... have been dragging their expired relationship indisguise of those three words ? 
What if your spouse fails to use those three words quiet often? Does that mean he/she doesn't love you anymore?
Is it that important to exhibit your love verbally in a relationship ... can't they feel it through our actions ?
"A couple in true love exchange words through their eyes but no other means"
How true is that ?
I can gladly say that ... i use those three words only when i feel like using them ... atleast i do not falsely use them to lure or fake someone!
What if your spouse fails to use those three words quiet often? Does that mean he/she doesn't love you anymore?
Is it that important to exhibit your love verbally in a relationship ... can't they feel it through our actions ?
"A couple in true love exchange words through their eyes but no other means"
How true is that ?
I can gladly say that ... i use those three words only when i feel like using them ... atleast i do not falsely use them to lure or fake someone!2 people like this
12 responses
@akp100 (13640)
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi Sunny
I had read keep on shaving on first time !! 
But after reading your discussion i went to title again.
Well Actions said all so its not necessary to keep telling those words just for reminder.. But these 3 words are so nice to hear so i won't mind to listen them again and again..
I had read keep on shaving on first time !! But after reading your discussion i went to title again.
Well Actions said all so its not necessary to keep telling those words just for reminder.. But these 3 words are so nice to hear so i won't mind to listen them again and again..@sunnycool (12714)
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi anand,
You would end up with a bloody chin if you shave repeatedly
Those are three magical words ... everyone thrives to hear those for sure.
Those are three magical words ... everyone thrives to hear those for sure.@sunnycool (12714)
• India
12 Apr 11
I would rather talk about my beard which is being hated by the vampire lol
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
11 Apr 11
I do not use those words lightly and I also think actions speak a lot louder than words, and I know some people love me (by their actions) who are not the sort to say it, and some who say it do not mean it at all.
Saying it sure is not going to save a bad relationship.
I wish for you only happy relationships. Fortunately that is what I have in my life.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
27 May 11
Hah, hah, sunny, you are such a romantic dude! If I weren't in a relationship and you were 50 years older, just think. I was with my late hubby over 40 years and did not think I would be able to like anybody new as much, but I have taken a chance on love again and it seems to be working out. Hang in there. Yours will come.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
12 Apr 11
One big warm hug for your wishes
I would have only one relationship ... good times,bad times i would be with her round the clock throughout my life no matter what!
I would have only one relationship ... good times,bad times i would be with her round the clock throughout my life no matter what!1 person likes this
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
1 Jun 11
Personally I have heard of many out there who have said these words to someone, but do they really mean it or is it just words? Even in Marriage a spouse should know if there is really Love there, or just words, and if you are dissatisfied, do you really think these 3 words will really keep you together? Many times this is a great thing to hear from someone and can help make your day better, but unless you really mean it sooner or later it will become something you regret as well.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
5 Jun 11
I seriously dont think those three words would play a role when it comes to saving ones relationship.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
10 Apr 11
I think these three words issued in truth have a magic power. Way to often we forget that each person faces a large amount of stress and negative energy in their lives. If a spouse will only utter these three words once or twice a day
the marriage will be stronger and the stress of the world will be easier to bear.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
10 Apr 11
You got a valid point in there ... couple of good words from your loved ones can ease off the stress!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
12 Apr 11
Hi kashers --- how you have been doing ? Its been so long since we exchanged comments in here.Good to see you back mate.
You must be pretty good when it comes to usage of those three words.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
11 Apr 11
It's not true. Saying "I love u" all the time, can be a form of formality when it's overused. It can be a phrase with no meaning to it at all. Saying that 3 words should be sincere, and both parties should feel the love behind those 3 words. It should only be said at the right moment, or to surprise either one, when the need for it arises. It adds on the the romance when it's said at the right time.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
12 Apr 11
Essence of those three words is lost when it is falsely used.Thanks for your response girl.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
10 Apr 11
Hey sunny! How've ya been? That is kind of sad~ And that is a problem
too. It is easy for some people to say those words and most of the
time they don't mean a thing. If you don't mean it, then don't say
them and if you feel that you have to say them then there is a
serious problem with your relationship! My bf and I have been having
some serious issues lately and when I ask him if he still loves me
he says "sometimes"-I may not like it, but at least he's honest!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
10 Apr 11
Hi opal,
I'm doing good ... how about you?
Its pretty hard to utter those three words to someone you aren't in love with...hope your bf gets along with you nicely in the coming days 
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
10 Apr 11
Hello Sunny.
To use those words you have to mean that from your heart.
I can say that to anyone who i meet or pass me by, but do i mean it?
Not likely.
It is nice to be told you are loved, but if the real feeling is not there, why waste your time.
You get a lot of fake i love yous, been there and experienced that nasty feeling of it.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
10 Apr 11
Unfortunately i did come accross few who direct those words from their minds!
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
10 Apr 11
The I Love you words certainly are a nice sweet gesture and reassurance too of the loving relationship. However for me actions speak louder then words so I would prefer to feel the love more so then hear the words.
Exchanging gestures certainly affirms love for me, and I can vouch because it is what caught my heart on how my boyfriend initially looked/saw me. When I first met him we were suppose to be only friends and something about the way he used his eyes has me with him for 6 loving years.
I agree that only saying the words would disappoint me, so always best not to use them with ill intentions, upon doing so will cause the other to eventually be hurt and the more frequent they are used with the wrong intentions the deeper the other believes to be in love, hence later to be truly hurt.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
10 Apr 11
It isn't that hard to sort out if one is trying to make fool out of you by using those words --- when it comes to the importance of those words in a relationship it does wonders provided they aren't overly used with an invisible cause behind which really sucks!
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32507)
• Calgary, Alberta
10 Apr 11
for me its all about action and not words , I had seen couples who says "i love you" to each other almost every minute but their relationship is full of lies, as in its so fake and forced. but you can see their not happy, Being in love with each other is to feel good and happy whenever they were together, they were so in love that you can see their love through actions.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
12 Apr 11
... i did come accross a couple down the street!they were hugging each other whilst the girl was flirting with the other guy who was awaiting his pickup van in the nearby stop.That indeed shows how serious they're into each other.
@ruiwang (11)
• China
10 Apr 11
Yes, of cause, action is more important than words. But sometimes girl is fond of listening the honey words even she knows that you love her very much. I think it is a kind of romance time when saying that three words, which can make the relationship much better.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
12 Apr 11
Those words can brighten up one's environment paving way for romance ... welcome to mylot 
@doidgesidhuonline (55)
• Canada
10 Apr 11
While saying it and meaning it are two different things, I think the point in saying it is that you don't want your partner to think that you are taking him/her for granted, or that he or she already knows it. Assuming is never a good thing in a relationship.
Obviously actions speak louder than words, but I think in a long-term relationship both are important.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
10 Apr 11
Using those words to express your love isn't wrong ... but isn't right when tries to fake love indisguise of those words.
