friends to lovers -- are you willing to cross the line?
By ann815
@ann815 (54)
Philippines
April 12, 2011 10:29pm CST
i have a friend who i have known for forever. we hang out, spend time together, we chat for hours, we know each others secret. we flirt on the phone and our banters are charged with more than friendship talk.
we've been in this situation for quite some time now. is this leading to something romantic or heartbreak?
mylotters, what do you think?
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4 responses
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
hello ann! friendship is the best foundation of love. like you said, you two both have known each other for forever but only the two of you also knows how you felt about each other. well, do you have feelings for him? or do you think he has feelings for you? if so, there has to be one of you to make a move if there is. sometimes it's like movies, where one loved the other but the other is confused. or maybe the other really just like friends. it's just a matter of understanding one another. some people who have feelings for their friends don't take risk of their friendships, so they tend to hide away their feelings instead and just be there for their friend. for them not to be in a situation where they have to both part ways cause the other one doesn't love the other. anyways, it all depends on both parties as well. some friends do feel grudge and take revenge but some also accept the fact that the other doesn't love him/her. as i have said, it depends on both parties. i just hope you two, will be friends no matter what happens.
it's best to have partners whom you consider your bestfriend!
it's best to have partners whom you consider your bestfriend!@ann815 (54)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
it's a little complicated but i do hope sometimes that this dance leads to something beautiful. i pray that one day one of us will have the guts to say what we really feel. there is fear of rejection and a lot of uncertainties. if only we're brave enough. :)
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
4 May 11
Yes, it takes a lot of courage for you both to talk about those issues. But then again, it will always be a problem if you both keep your feelings inside of you.
I believe time will come for both of you to talk things throguh. Wish you good luck my friend!
@whengcat (1457)
• Philippines
13 Apr 11
I think it's okey, because friendship is the best foundation of love. If a relationship was built on friendship it is strong and can stand the test of time. I know because that's how my husband and I started
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
They say the best relationships are built on friendship. But of course,you feel there May be something more to your relationship but you will never know until you clear it out with him. If May be into something not as serious as what you May want to have,but if you let it be then i think if will just wait for you to realize and want something more. Do not settle for anything less than what you deserve.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
Well,you will never knew where that friendship will lead into.. (romantic or heartbreak)
Let time tell and wait for the proper time.
Just enjoy the company and the situation...who know that would be a start for a happy ending story.
have a great day
