Always good at first..

Bahrain
April 14, 2011 8:37am CST
My friend who experience having in a relationship many times always say that guys are always only good at first(during courtship)..Sweet at first, always has time for you at first and serious at first. But when the time comes that you are deeply in love with him they change. Do you agree guys out there?
5 responses
@alex_rae (22)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
I totally agree! My boyfriend while he was courting me, usually calls me everyday, wants to see me almost 24/7, do everything that I asked him to do. He was so sweet and fun to be with. But now, I don't know what happened to him. He doesn't even call me anymore ( I'm the one who's calling him now). All he ever think about was sleeping rather than spending the time with me. I guess that's the irony of getting involved in a relationship and it sucks.
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
Thanks for the response.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
If she found the guy in some alley or someplace less descent then she would have to accept something like that to happen, but not always though. Look a for guy with a good family background, a good work, a descent life. I bet she would have that qualities she is looking for.
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
Thanks for the response.
@eurekafemme (5881)
• Philippines
14 Apr 11
Hello there. I think men or even women put their best foot forward whenever they meet someone who is interesting enough. Sadly, but true. This is in order to get the other person's attention and somehow 'lure' him/her into having a relationship. But when the thrill and curiosity fades, this is rea when there's no mystery left to uncover , the love seems to fade as well as the interest to draw that person closer. Attraction sometimes is just like a new toy. At first, you are so excited and couldn't get enough of it but once such excitement has been satiated, you lost interest and look for a new toy.
• Bahrain
22 Apr 11
Is it fair? After how many years that you've been through it will end up just like that? Why do people enter in a relationship when they will not be responsible for it. When love fades, it will start to mess up everything. I think you're right, there is no such thing as constant or permanent in these world, it always fades and change.
• India
21 May 11
well, the only reason they are very kind and careing at first because they want you to trap in LOVE..and after you are in deep love with him,he dont be careing like past.
@sashakiddo (1102)
• United States
20 Apr 11
There are always unique cases that differ from the expected course. For me and my partner, things started out rought because we were both trying to be something we were not in order to impress each other. I had said I liked bad guys, and so he acted like that, even though he misinterpreted my meaning. Because of this things were not very good in the beginning but later we started being true to ourselves and realized we liked that better.