is this puppy love?infatuation?.....
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
Philippines
April 15, 2011 1:31am CST
Hello Mylotters,
Uuuhhmmm…I don’t know how to start this discussion but since someone convince me to share it here let me share it. Yesterday I was surprised when I saw a photo comment from my friend’s son he is my “SO CALLED BOYFRIEND” not really (Shiby I can explain LOL) 
it was all joke but this kiddo take this seriously to the point that our status in face book are in a relationship with each other hahaha! It’s nothing for me because it’s just for fun what made me think when he commented like this “ You both look nice together you should change your in a relationship status from me to him” I sense that he is jealous well most of the time in any occasion he always do if he saw me having fun with a guy (actually the guy in the photo is Rberon along with Neildc Son Zayzay) I can’t help not to laugh so hard yesterday because of this comment but in some point I fall in deep thinking what if for this kiddo it’s not just fun it is something but he is just 12 years old almost half of my age.
There’s an incident that I told him that we need to change the relationship status in face book but he refused and I teased him to a girl same as his age but he got mad at me, I am beginning to worry how to solve this funny thing because I don’t want to hurt him in any possible way.
Maybe I am just being over acting or assuming so much to this situation.
Is this puppy love? Infatuation?crush?
I know many of you are going to laugh and make fun of me hahaha!
Happy Mylotting!
it was all joke but this kiddo take this seriously to the point that our status in face book are in a relationship with each other hahaha! It’s nothing for me because it’s just for fun what made me think when he commented like this “ You both look nice together you should change your in a relationship status from me to him” I sense that he is jealous well most of the time in any occasion he always do if he saw me having fun with a guy (actually the guy in the photo is Rberon along with Neildc Son Zayzay) I can’t help not to laugh so hard yesterday because of this comment but in some point I fall in deep thinking what if for this kiddo it’s not just fun it is something but he is just 12 years old almost half of my age.
There’s an incident that I told him that we need to change the relationship status in face book but he refused and I teased him to a girl same as his age but he got mad at me, I am beginning to worry how to solve this funny thing because I don’t want to hurt him in any possible way.
Maybe I am just being over acting or assuming so much to this situation.
Is this puppy love? Infatuation?crush?
I know many of you are going to laugh and make fun of me hahaha!
Happy Mylotting!2 people like this
8 responses
@shibham (16977)
• India
15 Apr 11
Let me laugh first.
hahahahahahahahahaha
hahahahahahahahahaha
hahahahahahahahahaha
Well, there is nothing wrong in that interacting. Perhaps he has fallen in your love which makes him to be jealous. lol. Okay, politely tell him who are they along with you in that photo. ( unfortunately i am not able to watch it as i have network pro). Hope he will find his answer..
by the way, i am waiting for your explanation.
Have a nice day.
let me join you laughing 
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
Just be yourself and BREAK HIM
honestly, you gotta wake him up from this. of course, he would feel hurt and be alone here and there but he will eventually become stronger and move on. it's better to let his chain break before it becomes unbreakable and breaks him from the inside when it's already too late to break it..
honestly, you gotta wake him up from this. of course, he would feel hurt and be alone here and there but he will eventually become stronger and move on. it's better to let his chain break before it becomes unbreakable and breaks him from the inside when it's already too late to break it..@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
@ LK,
BE MYSELF AND BREAK HIM how i wish it is easy one
I am thinking about it seriously since last year
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
hello whengcat,
I don't know when and how to start talking to him actually i am not sweet to him like before because someone always reminding me that the boy is falling in love with me 
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
hello bhaby,
Didn't i gave you my suggestion long ago?
ADOPT HIM
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
hello jaiho,
Your suggestion is
unacceptable
dangerous
and the end of my future
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
well..sorry to tell you it is already written in my last will...
.....that you will ADOPT HIM 
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
@ jaiho,
Need to consult it to Shiby first you know it will be my PRESENT and FUTURE if ever don't want any complications
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
Hello Catch
,
Well, you never should have done it in the first place, now it's really on his head. I think it's best if you CHANGE the Relationshiop Status before he takes it completely seriously. you gotta break it to him to wake up and realize you just did it for fun. then, he might move looking for another woman of his age and make fun of it?
Just be firm on this and tell him it was just fun and change the status. i think it's best to let him break this dream his having no matter hard it is. but at least you set him free there.
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Well, you never should have done it in the first place, now it's really on his head. I think it's best if you CHANGE the Relationshiop Status before he takes it completely seriously. you gotta break it to him to wake up and realize you just did it for fun. then, he might move looking for another woman of his age and make fun of it?
Just be firm on this and tell him it was just fun and change the status. i think it's best to let him break this dream his having no matter hard it is. but at least you set him free there.1 person likes this
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
talk to his mom ..hehehe...
adopt him,Shiby is willing to adopt the kiddo anyways
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
hello LK,
I want to change it i need to know Shibham's fb account first
Yes i know i need to end this so called relationship but how? i mean this kiddo is not just a kiddo he is so charming and i can't bear to hurt him
I think i need to talk to his mom .
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
Yes i know i need to end this so called relationship but how? i mean this kiddo is not just a kiddo he is so charming and i can't bear to hurt him
I think i need to talk to his mom .
thanks for the response
happy mylotting1 person likes this
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
hello ebuscat,
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
15 Apr 11
It is a bit laughable, but we don't mean teasing. Actually, your friend's son on a growth up process, and he will experience all these thing, that he might not experience before. Since you are a female, he might assume that he should come after you or something. When he grow older, he will understand that you are not for him. There are many other options out there.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
hello kingparker,
This is also what i am thinking before and i think i should clear this to him so he can find someone who is at his age.
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@marapplestiffy (2182)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
oh, oh...I was going to say ask help from your friend but have read your comment above
, seriously, the boy will get over it someday...
,speaking from experience...I thought I loved my bestfriend's brother who is 10 years older than me, it's really an embarrassing stage of my life now that I got over it...he didn't reject me, instead he treated me like his little sister...I guess adoption might be the best idea after all
, seriously, the boy will get over it someday...,speaking from experience...I thought I loved my bestfriend's brother who is 10 years older than me, it's really an embarrassing stage of my life now that I got over it...he didn't reject me, instead he treated me like his little sister...I guess adoption might be the best idea after all@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
hello apple,
The adoption is not a good idea
I hope it will be easy like that well he is just a lil' brother to me
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
I hope it will be easy like that well he is just a lil' brother to me
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
@fireblaze (52)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
hello, bhabycatch013!!!!i couldn't help to smile while reading your story, heheh...it is so cute!!!!maybe, a puppy love can best describe what a 12-year old kid is feeling for you...bit confusing for the both of you. perhaps, you can spend time away with him meantime he is having that kind of feeling for you...in that way, he will be able to outgrow that kinda weird thing that he has for you right now...
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
15 Apr 11
hello fireblaze,
Actually i used to see his family 4 times a week before because of my commitments we rarely see each other and it did not help every time he will see me he will hug me and say I MISS YOU 
they even give me visit if i can't go to their place 
to think her mom is enjoying this situation hahahha!
thanks for the response
happy mylotting
they even give me visit if i can't go to their place to think her mom is enjoying this situation hahahha!
thanks for the response
happy mylotting1 person likes this
