a martyr....are you one of us??????

I can't say I am one of the Martyrs. I don't really feel that way. It's just that even if I keep on crying in our relationship, I still stick to what we have. It it because of I love him and more than the that, I know that he loves me too. And that the years we have been together and the storms that we have passed testifies to that love. We wouldn't reach this far if this is all because of a one sided relationship.

yup, once. But really it is a big mistake to be martyrs in your love ones even you are aware that they don't love you anymore. But sometimes we can blame our self, because we love them, and it is no easy to forget the one you truly love. It needs times to be faded.

I think I am a realistic person.Even when I was in love with my girl I told her that she could leave me if she was not satified with me and never postponed till both were old,that would ruin too many. I'll never be a martyr anyhow because we must love one another in the sociaty or even in the family.

i was once a martyr and i became a martyr to the wrong guy. i thought he would someday change, i thought someday he would realize his wrong doings and i was hoping we could start again. my all my hopes are completely wrong. now i dont even want to look back at that time. i dont want to see myself in that position where i would often cry, and i would often be controlled by him simply because i want our relationship to work. now im a much better person. i learned that there are so many guys in this world, and giving my all will just leave me scarred in the end. now i control myself much better when it comes to guys, and i become very open to them letting them know why i act the way i do. and they did understand me, well most of them at least.