having a true love relationship is really true for only some lucky people

Delhi, India
April 16, 2011 4:48am CST
i have been in love with three different girls in life. i loved them a lot. When i was at 13th of age, i loved a girl. but never had courage to tell her after 3 years of this on side love when i tell her how i love her, she influenced and accepted my proposal. But just after 10 month she refused to meet me as she said she is having affair with other one. After that 2 other girls came on different ages but each has breaked relationship after few month. is it really so much hard to find a true love. Now i have stopped searching of my true love as i know the next will also leave me after some time.
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20 responses
17 Apr 11
so hard to find a true love relationship,,so many players girl/boy now i dont know why they like playing like that,,me if the true love came i will grab it and never let go thats what i will do
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• Philippines
17 Apr 11
hi manoj, Sorry to know this even in fairytale love story they struggle before they find the love of their life, they suffer to have an happy ending even in real life there will always be a reason why they turn out to be your Exs' but doesn't mean that there is no one for you in right time the right person will come who know she is just around . happy mylotting have a nice day!
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
hi onlinebuxmaker there is no harm on being a positive person life is too short we should enjoy every moment of it have a nice day!
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
18 Apr 11
Maybe you are just the one to have short love relationships before meeting the true one. Though I would not know either what is true love...
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
29 Apr 11
hi, yeah,you're right true love relationship is really true for those who are really lucky people,and so sad because i am one of those unlucky people. and now, i decided to be single again,maybe forever.
@Austee (131)
18 Apr 11
Hi! True love relationship is not only for lucky people. It may be because its not yet time. Just before I met my true love, I always search for the one. I pray for it. But same thing happen. I cry always. Then I stop searching. Because I know that its not yet time for me to meet the one. I just pray that God would give me the right person in time. No other man but the one true love. Then Lord gave him to me. For now, just enjoy being single. True love will be destined to meet you in time. You just have to wait for that time. Don't rush.
@lyamsitiy (104)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
In your situation, due to past experiences you have its normal that you would feel jaded. Others would say that you should stop looking for it and just wait patiently. Don't focus your life on searching that true love. Be the best person you can be and eventually when you least expects it true love may come and surprise you, you can never tell.
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
17 Apr 11
You are young still I'm sure true love will come to you when you lest expect it!
• India
17 Apr 11
Well then what you have found is not true love that's what i think. true love wouldn't leave you just like that. And one more thing to be clarified. Love is as it is true. So there is no such thing as true and false love. Maybe it's just a crush what you had so just then make sure that you really love that person. Make sure that she is worth everything to you. Let her know how special she is for you. Then you will know that your in love and when you two love each other than there is nothing that can separate you two... Cheers!
• China
17 Apr 11
Hi,young guy!Every cloud has a silver lining!You don't have to stop seaching.I think what you must do is that you have to find some way to tell the girl who you love all your strengths and weaknesses,maybe some girls really mind one or two of your shortcomings.The happy day will come to you as long as you are patient and lucky enough.Cheer up and keep it up!
• United States
16 Apr 11
Honestly, people go through hard times in their relationship lives but don't let that stop you from living your life. You've been hurt by every girlfriend in the past, but nobody said that love wasn't going to hurt. Not every girl is the same, you'll find a girl that'll love you just for you and will appreciate the type of boy you are. You might not find any time soon but you will find her and when you do find her she'll make you happy and you'll make her happy and you will be fine. So hang in there and don't give up on love because love is the greatest emotion we could ever feel in our hearts.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
16 Apr 11
I think there is a perfect one for everyone of us. God has created someone for everyone I believe. It's just that some meet them early and it takes time for the rest. I have had a relationship before with a guy and I thought he was the one but sadly he wasn't. I have been out of love for 4 years but I'm cool coz I know there's someone out there who I still got to meet =) Have faith and try and make your relationship strong. Trust is the biggest thing.
@elaidha (95)
• Philippines
16 Apr 11
If you want to have a lasting relationship, you should know how to love the girl the way she wants to be loved not the way you wanted to be love. Because most of us didn't have any idea that we are becoming selfish in a relationship.
• India
16 Apr 11
Hey Manoj, dont break ur heart. It happens to almost every1. I m happy that u hav stopped finding true love. Dont wait 4 ur love. Someday u'll find a girl who wil be better than the 3 girls u hav mentioned. Dont break ur heart frnd..GOOD LUCK
• Philippines
17 Apr 11
Hi there, I'm kind of new to myLot and this is the first ever post that I read. It interested me because I feel like I am part of the "lucky" people. I am not about to brag don't worry. I love my boyfriend a lot and we've been together for 2 years and 5 months so far. People say we are a match made in heaven and I agree with them. :) So the reason why I want to comment on your post is because before I met him, there were a lot of heartbreaks for me. Like LOTS of heartbreaks. The right guy or for your girl comes in the least expected moments. So hang in there and when SHE comes, you'll just know it's for real. I wish you the best of luck.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
16 Apr 11
I don't believe that tre love is only for the lucky ones in this world. Everyone is capapble of giving and receiving true love. sometimes it just falls into our laps. ther times it is something we have to work for and search our whole lives for.
@grkelly (1206)
• Malta
16 Apr 11
I agree with you that it is really hard to find true love, but once you do you will feel so pleased and blessed that you will forget all abiout how hard it was before. The wrong thing you are doing is to give up looking for someone special. That is somethign you should never do. Never give up...always keep in mind that somewhere there is someone special for you.
@antoxgun (93)
• Indonesia
16 Apr 11
Finding true love is not as easy as turning the palm of the hand, keep in mind and the ideal conditions to determine that someone is your true love. But there are tips that can help you find true love that is the most important, love yourself first. Live with happiness and never give up hope. Rest assured, every person is created in pairs. The problem is when we get the right people, at the right time.
@ajp387 (60)
• India
16 Apr 11
The best way to get true love in life is to stop making any intense effort for it because whats yours will come to you with minimum effort. Remember the almighty has decided everything for us we are just playing the character written by him so if one is deprived of true love its their call so no need to worry they must have stored something for us, good or bad we just have to accept it. This is the only way to go on in Life.
@aksehc (18)
16 Apr 11
I think I still believe in love at the right time. And true love really waits. Even though same incidents are always happening in love, maybe its because love is telling us something. I believe that we are destined into someone in the end, and I think its worth the wait.
16 Apr 11
there's no such thing as finding a "one" true love. in your lifetime, you will meet a lot of people who will be able to touch your heart in one way or another. being left by someone you love is just part of your life. you just have to move on after your current relationship has ended. the world goes on. it is your choice to love or not to love someone.