Unsettled Business: Ex’-Suitor Question

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Hi Mylotters, Well this happened recently there is a guy who was one of my suitors before he is nice and gentleman I almost fall In love with him maybe we are not just destined to each other he need to go back to his province for some reasons but despite of being far to each other he still manage to call me or send me letters (snail mail) this lasted for a months but suddenly for the reason I don’t know we lost contacts then one day after a decade I received a friend requests on my face book account at first I was surprised he changed a lot physically I decided to accept his request then we started chatting and update each others life I found out he has a child but doesn’t have a wife I don’t bother to ask why it’s too personal he wanted to see me because he wants to ask me something but I always have the reasons not see him until one day he fed up I think he said to me that we still have unfinished business to settle I was shocked and asked him what is it he told me he wants to know if I ever love him I can’t help not to laugh I did not know this question bothered him it’s been 10 years he has already a child and I am happily living my life know I know he sounds bitter but I just don’t want to put any connection with him let the past be buried and not to dig up again. For a weeks he stop talking to me and I think it is better this way I already told him that I almost fall in love with him before but my feelings did not go to far maybe I just admired him that‘s all. well i don't want to break his heart again but i should be honest with him (breaking his so easy but breaking kiddo's heart is a hard one ) Your participation are most welcome Happy Mylotting!