He loves her..but she is unable to reciprocate :(

If she doesn't love him then she needs to break up with him and move on. The longer she waits the worse it is going to be and the more miserable she is going to be. I couldn't stay with someone just because they loved me. I would have to love them in return.

In a relationship, the feeling is always mutual. It won't work out if only one has the feeling,and it's also unfair to the one who is giving his/her love without love in return. That kind of relationship is not worth keeping.

hello kwylima..... :) wow.... the story is same like mine..... me and my ex had a relationship like that.... we've been together for 4years, but i didnt love him like the first time cos he didnt respect and treat me well as his girlfriend... i tried to break up with him several times since the first year we've been together but he always beg to me and promise to change the way he treated me... i forgived him, but he never change like he promised to me.... im so tired with a relationship like that... and someday after 4years, i found a new gentle man, and i left my ex.... and thats the last time i saw him... he never contacted me again...

For me it is hard to deal with but if you truly love and showed it you became good to your self and to others.

They've been together for four years and suddenly the change of heart. What must be the reason? Did your friend just fall out of love? Then she must be going through a hard time maintaining the relationship.It is really unfair for the other party to have a one-way relationship, so it is better to cut the relationship early on to prevent further emotional harm on both of them. :-)Just my opinion though

it depemds, i have had friends tell me that they initially didnt love their boyfriends but resolved to give the relationship a try.. most of them who did told me that even though they didnt like them at first feelings just developed over time. they never really knew until they just fell in love out of the honesty and earnestness of their lovers ... but if your friend has been going out with her boyfriend for 4 years now without any development of feelings then she should break up with him :( sad but its unfair for the boy

being in a relationship 4 years with someone she doesn't love and still making the relationship works is a really hard situation for your friend and this is really unfair for the guy, its like he's waiting and committing himself with someone whose not being true with him all this time... tell your friend to break up with him immediately and be with some she really loves and like....

NO, you can't keep a relationship like that. First of all it's unfair, and second their relationship wouldn't work out because this became one sided already. She needs to tell him the truth and the guy should learn to accept the fact that the woman he loved don't love him back anymore.

NO, you can't keep a relationship that just one of them have feelings for the other, first of all it's unfair for the the guy. And second, they relationship would not work out because this became one sided already. So she needs to tell the truth and the guy needs to accept the fact that the girls she loves for so long doesn't love him back now.