My daughter earns a degree!

@eileenleyva (27562)
Philippines
April 18, 2011 12:41am CST
I am one proud mother. My daughter graduated yesterday from the University of the Philippines. The 100th commencement exercises was even graced by the President of the Philippines Benigno Aquino III as the keynote speaker. The graduation was a solemn and momentous occasion. The 4k+ graduates were bestowed their Bachelor's Degree, others their Master's and Doctorate, and, everyone being called islokar ng bayan or the people's scholars, graduated with honors! The University of the Philippines has many traditions. One of these was the burning of the torch during the graduation ceremonies. And we saw that yesterday, a sign of hope, of wisdom, and thanksgiving. I am one proud mother. And my daughter is one proud UP graduate. We snapped some photos of the sunflowers that bloom only in time for graduation, to honor the graduates. My daughter and I are both indebted to this university who helped my daughter bloom. Thank you!
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28 responses
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
Congratulations! You deserved it, like all people from UP they are all "iskolar" ng bayan so they have the debt to pay the country? I hoped, though I'm not one from UP I feel the duty. I was also the Iskolar of PGMA before and having been there in EDSA 2 in 2001 it feels as if the government repaid me I mean the Arroyo admin. I was a Iskolar for one year in my Bachelor's degree during that time I was a volunteer teacher for Gawad Kalinga in the neighboring municipalities of Misamis Oriental especially those in the hinterland part and when I graduated I got a teacher exchange offer from North Carolina from the U.S.A but I did not push through at that time my Mother was fighting TB and pneumonia,I said I'm going to work here in the Philippines for a couple of years as a private tutor for students who mostly come from Xavier University-Ateneo de Cagayan. Until now two years after I'm still here few meters from a Jesuit university waiting for students to arrive for their tutorial which is after their class. I hope your daughter will impart something too in this country and not to go abroad immidiately. Best Regards!
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
SERVE THE PEOPLE! That is the parting slogan that the university imparted to the graduates. My daughter is heeding that, and I do pray that she gets through the service all right. rock, why don't you apply for a teaching post at the Ateneo. Then you can work on your MA. The Jesuits are very generous. I know 'coz I was once their scholar, too.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
May all your dreams come true. I will specially pray for your mom.
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
hahaha!Jesuits they are getting old most of them,I kind'a laugh about it.but anyway yes they are very good and our city owe them their sacrifices they made in building parishes. I'm already in my completion of my MA in Special Education in Mindanao University the ateneo here lack the requirement to open a Graduate School for that, and I plan to work abroad get married have kids and come back building classrooms for the poorest of the poor and take care of my Mom.
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@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
19 Apr 11
Congratulations to you and your daughter! I hope she has a brilliant and successful future!
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
19 Apr 11
Oh I bet she thinks so...don't we all! but she is on her path to a future she will shape according to her needs and hopes...you will be surprise how resilient our young can be!
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
I like the resilience of the youth part...
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
I warned her about how tough it will be, as she meets people from all walks of life. I told her that the university, difficult the life as it already is, is nothing compared to the real world. She gave me a long look, as if telling me that she is totally prepared....
@misterMR (796)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
Congratulations tita eileenleyva! I hope I could make my parents proud when I graduate! I still have three years to go, I'm going to be in second year college this coming June. I have a classmate in UP Diliman and he told me that studying in UP is really hard. Once again, I have to congratulate your daughter and you again!
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
In UP, the students always learn the hard way. Professors mean business, and that means education and discipline, honor and excellence must be in every students vocabulary.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
And MR, am sure your will make your parents proud, too. Hit the books like there will be no tomorrow!
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@misterMR (796)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Yes, I know I can make my parents proud too. There no such thing as possible! Thank you for the encouragement! :)
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@macayadann (1235)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
Wow!!!, University of the Philippines graduate; more than being a proud mom. Your daughter is truly and indeed an intelligent one because from the start of her registration to that university is like entering a trial court analyzing her to be chosen as one of the acquitted to graduate in the end. Congratulations !!! SUCCESS is already reached after the long journey of struggle.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
That is a kinda strange way of describing the UPCAT and the UP education, but you are definitely right! Now, the real court proceedings begins...
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
I will have to agree with you. Many times, I get to talk to these kids and I couldn't help but simply be amazed by their ideas. There is one boy who said that his goals in life are not confined to computer engineering, his major. In a year's time, he is already a member of the Philippine wrestling team!
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
well UP is UP since the beginning when you say UP,thumbs up. It is like franchising to the best, already known and proven.
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@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
congratulations to your daughter who have surpassed the years of studying in that prestigious university and also congratulations to you eileen for having supported your daughter in her education and her endeavors. :)
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
Thank you! My daughter breathed a long sigh. All those nights had paid off. The diploma is a wonderful reward, she said.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
I am having it framed, ha ha! I still a vacant space in my wall!
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
you can now display that diploma in your house, like every parent does :) That is a reward which took years to come and a lot of candles to burn. :)
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• Philippines
18 Apr 11
In my own opinion, every parent who sees their kid finishing and earning a degree are very proud ones. When I graduated in college, my 2 brothers were confined in the hospital because of the Dengue outbreak in the Philippines. But, I saw my mother in tears while she was escorting me as I receive my diploma. Congratulations to your daughter! You are such a proud mother!
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
I felt the same way, rainey. I had to control the emotions as I watched my daughter play on the keyboard the graduation song. She even composed it.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Her teachers advised her to ask PARI to put a copyright on her song, for intellectual property rights. And one prof is already asking permission if she would permit her song be their college's official grad song...mmm...
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
wow! your daughter is very talented. Imagine playing the keyboard and composing their graduation song! i am so amazed. You are a very proud mom :)
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
19 Apr 11
Congratulations to your daughter (and also to her proud mama!) I've never been lucky enough to be able to attend any of my convocations (some personal problem arises and I can't make it). I've had my certificates posted home. Though my parents are proud of me (especially with my last accomplishment ...lots of hard work raising a family, working and studying)...they would have loved to be there at a graduation ceremony. OH well! Maybe I can try once more and get another degree :P
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
That's the spirit SViswan, go get another degree and walk through the sound of the Aida March. It feels great... the once in a lifetime occasions must not be missed, or forever we will be wondering how it feels...
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
18 Apr 11
Hearty Congratulations dear Eileenleyva on getting a degree by your daughter from the University of Philippines! I should Congratulate your daughter too on achieving this success and making you a proud parent! You need and deserve all the compliments for your upbringing, guidance and timely advises to make her grow as a responsible and wise student to have attained the Degree from the University! I can understand the feelings and happiness one can experience at this moment as my son also graduated an an Engineer and I too underwent through the same feelings as you are going right now! Some times I feel the time passes so quickly and fast, that it was hard for me to believe that my son who was a kid got graduated! This is something like feeling of the mother bird when the young ones they start learn how to fly independently for their survival! I think this is the first step of weaning in their life! Thanks for starting such a nice and positive response and you made my mood and I am really in the state of happy mood now, having suffered bit ill health yesterday! All the best to you and your beloved daughter!
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
AKRao, the childhood part also flashed before my eyes as I watched the college graduation rites. I also could't believe it that this was the baby I was cuddling, the toddler I was teaching, the little girl who was learning fast and asserting her own identity. Now she is all grown and had hurdled college, all on her own merits! I am so much humbled. God gave me the most wonderful blessings of all.
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
Hey! Congratulations to you too AKrao! You've got an Engineer already! Looks like we've got lots of proud parents here at myLot!
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
26 Apr 11
Hi. eileenleyva. Congratulations to your daughter! I hope that she excels and reaches for the stars as much as she can! I know that you are one proud mother and this achievement of your daughter's has pleased you greatly. I know that you are so proud of her!!! My daughter will be graduating from Head Start in another two more weeks. She will be going to first grade. I can't wait until she graduates too. I can understand how you may be feeling right now! Congrats to your daughter and cheers to you for being a proud, supportive and loving mother.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
28 Apr 11
Oh cream, you have a long way to go... but you are at the most wonderful phase...enjoy the moments...blog them if you can, when your baby is resting... will make you feel good when you are at a reminiscing stage, like me...
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
How proud mother you must be! Your daughter earned her much coveted degree and from a University! Congratulations! I wish you daughter more blessings to come so that you will continue to be a happy mother. God bless you and your whole family!
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
Thanks for kind wish. I must confess that my life is simply my two daughters at this point. Now, with the younger one on her final year, I am spreading my wings once again... There are many children who need care and love.... And yes, I am truly happy!
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
19 Apr 11
Congratulations, to you and you daughter. You obviously have done a fine job raising you daughter to be a responsible young lady. I am in college, a senior, and will be graduating soon. I am looking forward to that grand day. Young ladies are now taking the college campuses by storm; most of my classes are filled with females. The professor made a commit about how, in the future, women will be in positions that men now have because the men have stop going to college. Again, congratulation to all.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Uh-oh, that is a fact, Angel, women are so flexible they can juggle home and work, and still stay sane. You have to work harder. But your consolation is: women cannot also endure without the men!
@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
19 Apr 11
Congratulatinns. I understand how much happy you are. Every mothers have dreams about their children. they will be happy when their dream comes true. I believe behiend her success there may be your hardwork and hard work.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Thanks john, my daughter is quite apprehensive about the near future but she is definitely ready for hard work. Her college discipline was not an easy one.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
21 Apr 11
Congrats to u. I'm sure u must be very proud of your daughter as it's not easy to be a degree holder. Her hard work has finally paid off along with your patience and hard earned money in seeing her go so far in life. My brother should be graduating soon as well, and he will be the first degree holder in the family. Is your daughter the first in the family too?
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
21 Apr 11
Hmmm, Sanitary, I think my family has a penchant for degrees... We simply love staying in the academe! Truth be told, degrees are not guarantees for money. More often than not, my cousins and brothers give their clients pro bono. Support your brother. A degree will put him on a pedestal...
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@sweet_pea (3322)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Hi Ms. Eileen! Congratulations! Any mom in your position would be very happy. I hope that these people's scholars would be able to serve their own country rather than be tempted to the big salaries abroad. I saw the interview of the SummaCum Laude John Gabriel Pelias, who got one of the highest grade in the history of UP, he said that he is ready to give back to the country and institution that supported his academic pursuits by teaching at his alma mater when classes resume in June. I hope his fellow batch mates would do the same.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
The university automatically hires graduates with the laudes. The academe needs their prowess in their respective disciplines. John Pelias did say he intends to teach, and perhaps by doing so, he could also pursue his MS and his PhD. I am sure many will learn from him and hew will be able to bestow his knowledge to many...
@youless (112103)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Apr 11
Wow! It is a great news! I can feel your joy. When the children grow up and graduate from school with good achievement, their parents shall be so happy to it. My child is very little now. I hope one day I can be proud of him, too:) I love China
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
How our children turn out to be is what parentage means. Stay hands on with all of your child's endeavors. You will be a proud parent one day, that's for sure!
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
18 Apr 11
Dear friend, My hearty congratulations...This just reminded me of the day when I became graduate. It was really something precious movement in my life for me and my parents. I could taste that feeling how much a mother would get when her daughter attains a graduation.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Yes, I was overwhelmed by all the academic garb, actually. It all seemed surreal! The mother in me almost cried.
@sanelaze (167)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
Congratulations! It takes hardwork and lots of sleepless hours to get that degree. :) I'm sure your daughter will go places. Best of luck! :)
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
I am not waiting for that time when she unearths her travel bags from the closet. But when she does, I know her real life journey had finally begun. And I am taking to the sidelight in her life...
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
18 Apr 11
congratulation! Your daughter should be proud of what she achieved, and she did graduate. What a wonderful day and ready for the next step for her life, isn't she? I remember when I graduated from college, I was excited too. Now, I am working, and I hope that I can do something greater. You are definitely one proud mother.
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
I am still nagging about the payback thing. Life without service is also without substance. So my daughter is gearing up for the rougher ride...
@r3jcorp (1382)
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
Congratulations! My boss is like you, her daughter also graduated in UP yesterday. She was one of the cumlaude and her course, i think, is Foreign Languages. Yes, she told us to that the President is their guest and their tradition too. She was very proud and happy, maybe I will too if I we're in your place. The entrance examination for one is very difficult and only few student could enter the university. By having your daughter to graduate in a prestigious school here in the Philippines is something that all mothers would want. I'm sure that they will be sought after by big companies. Goodluck to your daughter, I know she will have a brighter future!
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Tnx r3, and all your good wishes travel your way, too. I suppose we parents are real braggers, but do permit us to do so, this thing does not happen everyday... And perhaps I won't get to breathe the same air with the president like on this occasion...
• Philippines
18 Apr 11
Congratulations to you and your daughter! :) yep, your daughter has just made an outstanding achievement :) Not everybody graduates as an iskolar ng bayan :) Every graduate takes pride on that. i imagine your daughter's delight, cause my mom said the same thing to me when I graduated in the same university 2 years ago ;) Congratulations to all graduates and congratulations to all Iskolar ng bayan :) !!!
@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Apr 11
Tnx czax, my daughter is happy with what she has achieved so far. She is still absorbing how it feels when one is finally done with formal school. Nourishing the moment and feeling grateful, according to her. But one can't help but be anxious excited about what the near future may bring...