Being single...

India
April 20, 2011 4:33am CST
Now a days i feeling very much lonely....And spending hours alone in my room. All this is just because of a girl... i dont want to mingle even with my friends...Often thoughts of the girl are haunting me.... I am really rest less and just sinking into this deep ole of loneliness,...
7 responses
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
well i can say that is normal, but if that situation runs for months and months already, well i say go out and have fun and live your life as it is... this kind of situation ofen happen to those who give their all to the wrong person, to those who love their girlfriends/boyfriends or even friends so much, and to those who think that their world is revolving around one person only. sharing your emotions, and feelings whether online, or to another friend is very helpful. but what will help you more is to go out, and despite the pain and/or loneliness you are feeling, still you have to try to put even just a small smile on your face. locking yourself in your room and being alone always may slow down your recovery and may add up to your loneliness.
• India
21 Apr 11
yes you are right. I will do it... Atleast i will try... Thanks for giving me such a good advice...
20 Apr 11
well what your doing was not going to help you that much..you have to force yourself to go out and enjoy being single..I was once in that situation..and I know what you're feeling..just be strong and move on man!! :)
• India
21 Apr 11
I will try to do it...Thanks for posting your opinion...
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
20 Apr 11
Dear friend, Being lonely is a part of life and if that is because of a girl, I feel it would be better to get the right girl and get married. May be at times being lonely can be avoided with other things other than girls, just make good friends with people, have some time in browsing, I feel it also depends moods. Hope your lonely feelings will soon vanish.
• India
21 Apr 11
iam trying to do that...but it is pretty difficult for me...any way thanks friend...
@zeraeign (163)
• Philippines
20 Apr 11
I am single and I'm happy about it. LOL. Who am I kidding? I wish I have someone to talk to when I'm alone. I mean, I wish I have a girlfriend. hehehehe. I think you're being too dramatic though. Just my opinion. No need to be mad. hehehehe
20 Apr 11
Be strong my friend, there are a lot people like you who experience such feeling but why do you allow yourself to feel lonely just because of a girl... your just making hard for yourself to move on. Why don't you cheer up and tell to yourself that you deserve someone better, it is painful at first but eventually you will forget about her.
20 Apr 11
then why don't you try to talk to her? does she know that you like her? nothing's gonna happen if you're just sitting in your couch and think of her. try to mingle with her. at least you will not feel lonely because you're with her. don't be a shy-type person. earn your strength to tell her you like her. and don't let others get her. if you think you deserve her then go and ask her. there's no reason for you to be shy. ^_^
@sajeevking (5073)
• Mumbai, India
20 Apr 11
Well friends now you are free to look at other girls i would call it freedom enjoy life its ok to be lonely for few days but like other said you have to move