need a friend?

United States
April 20, 2011 8:54am CST
i wish to have a good friend who understands me more than anyone, who never makes me feel alone.. how do i fine one? where? i have been alone for 6 years, i think its time for me to get up and get a friend..
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11 responses
• United Arab Emirates
20 Apr 11
hi leendead welcome to mylot, i think you need to go out and have fun, engage to a community programs, community activities, their you can find friends and don't be shy. Being alone for 6 years is not a healthy habit, you need to have friends to enjoy life. :)
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• Nigeria
21 Apr 11
Hey, being in a lonely planet is bad. You need to join many social networks to mingle with friends either by online chat or post exchange. But be careful of the friends you make at the end.
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• United States
21 Apr 11
I would love to be your friend. Believe it or not, outside my family I have no friends.....
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@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
20 Jul 11
Sorry to hear that i think you should meet people by the internet of in your own environment, personally, i met my husband by the internet we got marry he brought me to this country, and is the best husband of the world, there is no day that doesnt say how he love me and how he appreciate my work at home, the food that i cook for him, the way i take of the house, etc, for him i always look beautiful, sometimes i say you need glasses,lol! but i know he sees me with the eyes of the love!! i love my baby a lot! and i encourage you to enter to one of those sites maybe you can meet one, it is going to take time, and maybe you will meet a lot frogs but one day you will find the king! good luck!
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
12 Jun 11
With the rest, welcome to mylot. I don't really know how you managed to survive being alone for 6 years without a good friend, but I do know that you can always try looking for one here in mylot. You could probably describe further your lifestyle so we could understand more about you and help you see where you could be at fault, that way you could reform some of your behavior and probably make not only one but lots of true good friends. Best wishes to you!
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@Filigs (122)
• Portugal
12 Jun 11
Heya!! Before I say what I have to say welcome to MyLot!! :) So, I dunno how old you are, and what's your gender, but whatever you are and how old you are, doesn't matter really, everyone can get friends, it isn't something that you can actually choose. So, my tip is, go out and have fun, I'm sure you will meet new people and make new friends, but if you are finding a type of friend thats always there for you, thats a bit harder to find, thats a long-time friendship, which is better called your "best friend", which means that takes time to achieve, but if you want normal friends, there are plenty of them. Hope I helped!! ~~ Happy MyLotting!! ~~
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• China
13 Jun 11
I have no friends but I want to have a good friend to work together to chat about good topic Really boring without friends
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@jomzdsign (184)
• India
17 Jul 11
with this post i also made a fried request to you. Plz don't reject it. take care..bye
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@swirlz (3136)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
You've been alone for 6 years? That's sad. How come? Haven't you found someone you can connect to? Why don't you befriend your neighbor, or an office mate (or classmate), someone you could jibe with. It's not difficult to have a friend. If you approach someone with a smile, I'm sure she won't turn you off.
@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
31 Jul 11
Awww if I knew you lived by me I would take you to breakfast or lunch. then we could just go and take a walk on the beach and talk. I love making a new friend. It seems to be what makes us feel alive and young when you have friends.
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
Friends are everywhere, you msy come to a library one day and find a friend from there. You may sit beside him or her at a bus. Friends... most of the time, don't come to us. We find them. They maybe at school, at work or any place you dont imagine. Who knows? You may find one here from mylot? I guess you have toalso learn to be more open by being friends with people. Then eventually you will find a group where you will feel you belong. Maybe you already have that friend beside you. He or she maybe someone you know very well. Sometimes we don't have to look very far to find someone.
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
Hi leendead, I would be glad to have you as my friend. I am new here and in need a friend as well. I am also alone and would like to have a circle of friends here. Let's have a positive outlook in life and we will learn that life is easy with kind friends around. :)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
A close friend told me once, "there is no one in the world that will be a better friend to yourself than that of yourself alone". Yes it can be very lonely, but the thing is, you can only be friends with everybody but the best of best friend to yourself who will listen to you the way you wanted it is only yourself. The solution to your being lonely is just to take as many friends as you can. Be nice to everyone and you will have lots of friends. Even I can be your friend. Any random person can be your friend, but when you are asking for that friend who can always be at your side, who can always take your side and give you a wonderful advice and who could love you for who you are, that is only "yourself" and no one else. Trust me on this one... I too was asking of this myself a long time ago.