5 signs that you 've met your perfect match.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
April 23, 2011 7:10pm CST
I read yet another yahoo article that got me thinking. It lists the 5 signs you are with your perfect match. Here they are:
You discover you have quirky things in common.
Neither finch when you talk about the future.
It is super important that your friends like your partner
You think in terms of "we" even when it gets tough
You constantly stumble across things you want to share.
I agree with all save #3. I guess I have never had a close enough relationship with a friend where I Needed him to like mt guy. yes I said him. Most of my friends are male! In fact my guy abd I were friends Way before we got involved. He Is my best friend so if there were a friend who didn't like him, they wouldn't be my friend for long. What do you think about this list? Is there anything you would want to add? Delete?
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
26 Apr 11
Personally, I do not care who likes my perfect match. If my perfect match or soulmate is with me and we get along better than anything else in the world, god forbid anyone of my friends did not like her. I would disown them in a heartbeat. I did however meet my perfect match about 2 years ago and I would not change that for anything. The few friends I have do like her. The list sounds good I would not live my life to it.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
27 Apr 11
Congrats! I'm happy for you. I have been living my life by these rules without knowing it. I met my guy a year and some change ago.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Apr 11
I agree. If he doesn't get along with my friends , then I would keep them apart.
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
I really don't believe in such thing as perfect match because no one is very alike in nature. Yes we do have some common things with other people but not in a perfect way. I can really say that I do find someone who thinks just like me but unfortunately he become boring. The relationship is okay at the start but the excitement simply evaporates as days slowly unfolds.
Maybe the reason is because we are so very compatible with each other and we hardly fight. It's like having an extension of yourself, so boring. I don't mind a bit of disagreements and fights, it will surely add some spice with my relationship.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
25 Apr 11
I'm your polar opposite! I hate fighting. My guy is a blessing , he and I agree on about 95% of the time and with the 5%? We agree to disagree. And it Is not boring.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
24 Apr 11
Hi sarah ruth beth: I think they are good signs that this person could be the right one. As you have mentioned, I don't think that the fact that my friends like it is that important. But they are just that, signs. There are more things you have to know about the person you are dating to be sure that he/she is the one. Interesting subject thought.
ALVARO
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
24 Apr 11
Hi behen 
Like you, me too doesnt agree with the 3rd on that list. What has my or her bunch of friends got to do with our preferences? But I think why it is there - many people get swayed by the opinions of their friends and peers... so quite like if the friends too lke the partner, they would not create scenarios or confusions around...
But still, I dont think I will be swayed by anyone's opinion
Like you, me too doesnt agree with the 3rd on that list. What has my or her bunch of friends got to do with our preferences? But I think why it is there - many people get swayed by the opinions of their friends and peers... so quite like if the friends too lke the partner, they would not create scenarios or confusions around...
But still, I dont think I will be swayed by anyone's opinion1 person likes this
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
20 Aug 11
I agree with you on number 3. Our friends liked us naturally, because in all the things we found we had in common, we discovered we had a lot of mutual friends.
Now, there is a lady in my building we know who is dating a guy who threatened me in the past. Now that she's with him I'm staying away from both of thrm, so I don't have to deal with him...ever!
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@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
Those 5 signs are called compatibility and if there is compatibility in any relationship then you probably be in a healthy and more happy relationship, but I dont believe at all that compatibility is an assurance of finding perfect match as peoples tend to change by circumstances.
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@watergirl (567)
• Philippines
24 Apr 11
I agree that those can be signs that you have found your match. But finding the "perfect" match can be tricky. Relationships are not based on nor evaluated by checklists.
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@LeighAnne93 (129)
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24 Apr 11
I agree with all of them to a certain extent. I haven't found any quirky things in common, though I guess that depends on what you define as quirky! And I don't think all my friends must like him, I think that if there was a massive reason they didn't like him and other people agreed then I'd address it. If it was a case of them just not gelling, that's fine and it wouldn't be the end of my relationship or my friendship with them.
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