What if..?

Philippines
April 25, 2011 12:31am CST
What if you really like someone but that someone likes someone else. Would you wait for that person to acknowledge you or just move on?
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13 responses
@nobbsy123 (851)
• Australia
25 Apr 11
This question is easy to answer. If the other person likes someone else then don't waste your time and move on with your life. Sorry it may sound harsh but I'm not here to lie to you. Best of luck with everything. We are only here for a short time so I personally wouldn't waste the time we have.
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
9 Jul 11
it's wrong to do that...I did it and I'm talking from my own experience. if he doesn't like you now what makes you believe he will do it later?you're wasting your life when you should enjoy it as much as you can
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
26 Apr 11
What if???? That is a question you will be asking yourself for the rest of your life unless you resolve it once and for all. The fact you ask this question tells me you are not so sure they will ever acknowledge you. If that is true then you have too choices. 1). Give up on the idea that there can ever be something between you and move on. 2). Find out how serious the relationship they have now is and, if not too serious, make your move. Until you know exactly where you stand you will never resolve this. If they are in a serious relationship now it is not likely they will all of a sudden acknowledge you, especially if they have no idea that you like them. Often when we find out that someone likes us it makes all the difference on how we view them. So let them know how you feel in whatever way you can then step back and see what happens. If nothing then you have your answer and you need to move on. If they become interested then you can take it from there. “For all sad words of tongue and pen, The saddest are these, 'It might have been'.”
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
Hi, that already happened to me, before I met my husband. I was inlove with my best friend for 6 years. I've witnessed how he used to like and love other woman, not recognizing that I'm just beside him-- waiting him to love me back. I remember praying for him everyday, even cried before God and hoping that someday he will turn his heart to me. I've waited for him for 6 years-- struggling so hard just to win his heart. However, my heart and my mind got tired and decided to let him go. Though letting go was really tough, I gave up my feelings for him and started moving on. I never thought that giving him up was one of the best decisions I made in my life. If I wasted my time waiting for him who's really not meant for me, I would have never met my husband. I might have lost my first love but I'm still happy because that lead me to met my TRUE LOVE-- the man who promised to love me for the rest of our lives. :)
@anil02 (24688)
• India
26 Apr 11
If some don't like to you than it is wastage of time to wait her/his. If you will search one you will find hundred.
26 Apr 11
well i would move on as it would be clear that person did not like me. i have had plenty of experience with this as alot of men that i like always like someone else or my friends as they are alot prettier than me. i have come to the conclusion that i will just wait for the right guy to find me as i am waisting my time looking.
• India
25 Apr 11
For this better will move away from he/she. Some time if u have a luck sure u ll get he/she. Single work " what ever in our head it will happen" All the best if u wait for response
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
If your sure that you've already did everything to show that person you like him and he still does not acknowledge you...then might as well move on. There's plenty of fishes in the sea. If your really meant to be then your meant to be.
@shibham (16977)
• India
25 Apr 11
I shall move on letting her to move according to her wish. Its called sacrifice.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
i would try my best to show my interest and attention to her, and if still she don't seem to give me attention due to her liking another, then it would be better to move on. it's her lost not mine.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
25 Apr 11
it wrong to wait...lifeit's to short for that. there are enough person in this world...and if he likes someone else maybe he's not meant for you. so I would try to move on. actually I used to be in this situation. I like the fact that I'm talking in the past...cuz this means I;m starting to move on. i waited for him till I realised it's no point in waiting for a person who doesn't even care about you or how you feel. so my advice: try to move on, try to find other people.it's damn hard...but it's not worth waiting
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
hello, No, dont ever wait for him because he dont like you at all, Just move on. If i were you I will not die hard to wait for him until he acknowledge me. I'll just look for someone else, and if we are really meant for each other then the destiny will do it for you. Because you will look so obsess, And you dont like that right? sorry for that, that is just my opinion good luck hope it helps
@dmar24 (60)
• Philippines
25 Apr 11
Try telling her your feelings at least. and if not. Cope up..