My best friend deleted me from facebook, what should Ido?

United States
April 25, 2011 6:38pm CST
We have been really close for 3 and a half years I basically lived at her house on the weekends lol , but recently we haven't hung out in the past couple months until 3 weeks ago when we went to the beach together we had a lot of fun. Then a few days ago I texted her and asked to borrow a book and she said sure, it was a pleasant conversation. None of the other people I hang out with like her but, I love her like a sister. All of the sudden, today, she friends me. what should I do? I texted her to ask if she was mad at me but, she hasn't texted back yet.
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25 responses
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
25 Apr 11
Well its not the end of the world! Women are fickle! She may,or she may not take you back. Shes not the only woman in the world! Never push or pull a woman, just let her stew in her own juice for a bit, and she will come begging for attention! I know, I've been married to one for almost 60 years!
@shibham (16977)
• India
26 Apr 11
Exactly. I agree.
• United States
26 Apr 11
Well, I think you should talk to her in person and not text her. You won't get a reply back and if you call her she won't answer, she'll do the whole avoiding thing. So, you should do the noble thing and go to her house and talk to her. Lay everything on the line, and I may warn you that it might not be a pleasant conversation and she may tell you the things that you don't want to hear. But, you have to be strong and deal with it. Just know that there will be other friends out there.
@acey76 (1276)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
Well, just accept it, maybe she doen't feel that you are her bestfriend, or maybe it's not intentional, there are many reasons why she did deleted you on her facebook.
@jojo732 (294)
26 Apr 11
Hi Give her a couple of days and then maybe text her and ask her if you did something she didn't like or felt uncomfortable about..if she doesn't respond maybe you will just have to leave it to her to contact you again when she's ready. All the best. jojo732
@Kirinx (1688)
• United States
26 Apr 11
Well she might had have a reason for what she did.I mean i doubt she is mad at you maybe she is making a new facebook.I would just wait until she talks to you again and you can ask her whats going on. dont stress i am sure everthing is fine.
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
Don't mind her. I think the best "revenge" would be to be just passive, plainly passive. Your silence could mean a lot to her. Just continue with your life and live as fabulously as you can! :D
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
Is she dating someone new? Someone new that might get jealous if he sees you on your bestfriend's list of friends. Maybe you need to talk to her and ask her what's going on and why she unfriended you from Facebook. Maybe she took your moves seriously that you might be falling in love with her and decides that she should put a stop to it. I honestly don't know. It's hard to assume about these things that happened so it would be better to ask her for you to get the clear picture.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
26 Apr 11
Hi, Just curious, how many best friends you have? For me best friend is one not many. Now she deleted you does not mean your world has broken down. Be thankful to her that you have been saved from future catastrophe. Just think, what would happen if thins kind of things happened after you two were married. Now stop thinking about her and good girls and really good girls are there who would fill up your life with love and joy.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
26 Apr 11
I wouldn't worry too much about this. It is when they delete you from the real world that you should have concern.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
For me call him and text him that you are not the reason to be deleted and ask for forgiveness the must to forgive because Jehovah God is the one who forgive us how much more he is a person only.
@cmang83 (285)
• Malaysia
26 Apr 11
Hei friend, don't feel sad first because you also not sure what is happening. You also not sure she deleted you or what happen to her facebook account right? Let wait for her to reply you or may be you can get some news from your other friend that know both of you. Or even you can straight away call her or visit her at her house.
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
Maybe she had her monthly period the reason why she is kind a irritable or having a mood swing. Just don't take too personal let it last. Wait for the right time that she will call you and needing your help, I'm sure she will.
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
Well first of all, don't assume anything. It might be that she's caught up with something or so. Just wait it out and relax. If she doesn't reply then, I guess you just have to let her be.
@binx87 (26)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
give her time...soon she will realize how precious u are to her..or maybe she want to try or to test you..wait for the right time and talk to her..pray..Godbless
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
I don't think it's something you should worry about. For all you know, it's just a clumsy mistake or someone might have accessed her facebook and deleted you there accidentally or something like that. I don't think someone would change their minds about bestfriends that fast. I mean, if you were truly her bestfriend as well, should would more likely talk to you about something that would worry her or your relationship with her, right? Perhaps you just need to let go of these worries for now. If however she truly is angry with you right now for some reason, then just keep it cool, don't insist on talking though. Stop thinking about it as long as you know you didn't do anything wrong.
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
we men, most of the time, are so insensitive when it comes to the needs of our friends.. actually, i had one whom i treat like my very sister. she's so good and God-feared person. but sometimes, i don't understand most of her actions. she often gets mad at me and irritated without knowing her reason until i realized i was the one who wronged her by my simple actions. if men are sometimes insensitive, girls would be the most sensitive. LOL.. but it just only takes time;) sooner or later, she will make her move to be with you/
@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
26 Apr 11
I really don't think you should worry, its just facebook. Maybe she just deleted her account or did it by accident. It happens. One of my close friends closed her account in which I thought she deleted me as a friend, until I went to ask her about it and she said she deleted her account. Unless you two had a big argument between each other I wouldn't worry about it.
@misterMR (796)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
I am not sure with what you and your friend are going through, but I guess you should go confront her and ask what's the problem. She needs to tell it because if she does not confront you, the two of you may not be friends anymore. Try to ask her what actions did you cause her to feel like that, why she deleted you in Facebook and other questions like that. Confront her by talking to her softly and not seriously or jokingly. I guess she wants you to know something.
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
maybe you said something to her that she does not like. Call her and if she does not answer the phone then text her and tell her that she needs to answer the phone because you have something important to say. Confront her and tell her that you are lonely while she is away.
@paries (29)
• Philippines
26 Apr 11
well, maybe she senses that you liked her, and i am sorry to say this, but i guess she's not that into you..so she better cut your communication and other means that you might know her whereabouts and activities....but, if it's not the case, maybe she just accidentally deleted you..