kind love.sister/brother,misunderstanding ,relationship

Baguio, Philippines
May 1, 2011 4:20am CST
Halu; have you ever experienced that you have a love one who is being your best friend,your enemy sometimes hehe,and a sister/brother.you go together,laughing and didn't care if even there many people around,talking/telling stories,sleep beside you and hugging each other,taking a bath together, have fun most the time when you've been each other,not wasting the time to be with each other,becoz after that you've been be far from each other again for a years. But becoz of misunderstanding,you felt that both have a gap,there's no anger but you have been felt that both been far apart feelings .have you ever feel/experience like this.what can you say about it.thanks for sharing. yeah i experienced this,and i really missed her so much,i loved her much.i miss the moments with her,i miss her voice,i miss her care.i miss her all the time,. i met friends,true friends who always here for me and always support me,i owed much and thanks my friends and i love them,but of course she's different from them . Here in my heart a deep and a kind LOVE for her FOREVER.. thanks GOD BLESS TO ALL
5 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 May 11
It's difficult to cover our true feelings when we are at odds with our closest friend. Though you are still going together , there is already aloofness to each other. Your stories will now don't flow naturally but are guarded. It's as if one slight mistake will be taken against you by your friend. It's difficult when your best friend will become your enemy.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
2 May 11
That's so good of you. although you have a misunderstanding with her, you still pine for her friendship. That's really what we call real friendship.
• Baguio, Philippines
2 May 11
halu SIMPLYD, yah i agree to you but actually she' not become of my enemy becoz here in my heart i loved her and i miss her... thanks to your response GOD BLESS
• Philippines
3 May 11
Me and my older sister had a big fight year 2008 and that was the longest heartache i ever experienced. It started December 9 up to December 22. We did not talk, even if we were needed to talk. We do not look eye to eye and we do not care for the existence of each other. There were times I get up in bed not noticing her and I do not care about her. The reason was very deep. She managed to patch things us with me because Christmas was approaching, but I have this feeling that that was not real. Anyhow, we were okay now and she takes care of me. I believe even inside the family, things happens that you cannot control and you cannot imagine that your closest siblings could be your closest enemy.
• Baguio, Philippines
4 May 11
Halu grecychunny, your right,sometimes,we should allow the days will pass and calm each other than to have a worst thing come.and of course we consider each other that we are not good enough to be a perfect one...experience makes our relationship more stronger.. thanks so much for sharing GOD BLESS
• Philippines
3 May 11
hello Sydalg, This is what you called LIFE if that person really important to you and you felt there is something wrong have you ever ask yourself why it happened?did you ever ask her what is wrong?Sometimes we must considered other feelings and we must aware of our actions and words towards others. Life can be tricky sometimes we take for granted those people who really cares for us we just remember them in time of our needs . Communication is still important in any relationship have a nice day!
• Baguio, Philippines
4 May 11
Halu Hon, thanks for response GOD BLESS
@gelayagui98 (1336)
• Australia
1 May 11
Yes, I go through that. My mother role to me was not only a mother, instead, she was my sister, my bestfriend and my adviser, my nanny too. I can share to her my childhood days, teenage life onward until I got married and have children. My nanny in the sense that she took care of all my three kids, she won't allows other people to take care of them. She done all for us that's why when she passed away, I lost them all- mother, sister,bestfriend, adviser and nanny. I can't moved on yet with her absence.
• Baguio, Philippines
2 May 11
Halu gelagui98, oh what a nice story,im very proud of your mother,she's a good mother and a grandmother.yah it's true very hard to move on specially when loosing a mother like your MUM. me too i have a very loving and have a kind heart MUM and she's the greatest MUM i had. HAPPY MOTHER'S MONTH to all MUM. thanks to you my dear GOD BLESS
1 person likes this
1 May 11
yeah..i have this same dilemma with you.especially, if you had a fight with your bestfriend and sometimes, the reason is to shallow.i dont know what happened. but im still hoping for the best!.. time will surely heal, one day, she will realized that im just here and ready to talked it out.;)
• Baguio, Philippines
2 May 11
Halu joeyalberta, yes it is very nice my dear,you have a kind heart too. thanks for your response GOD BLESS