What Kind of Higher Power Sanctioned Her Walk on Earth?

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Have you ever met a person that just seemed really bad? I'm not talking about serial killers and stuff like that. And not really anyone overtly bad. Just met a person that makes you want to vomit when you are around them? My boyfriend has a sort of niece that makes me feel this way. She is not his niece by blood. His brother is has been living with her mother for over 30 years so she kind of got adopted in. When ever she is over at my boyfriend's house she feels the need to talk about every other girl he has ever dated and tell him to his face (with me right there) that she never liked ANY girl he has ever dated. I don't think she has a desire to be with him really because she is pregnant by her boyfriend of several years. And they seem to be in a pretty strong relationship. Then she also joins the ranks of people that are really ignorant to my boyfriend's son. I can't get it into his head that she is being mean to him. I'm still an outsider in his family even after a year and a half of us being together. Today after the whole talking about his Ex's he finally gave me a breath of fresh air by going out to run a few errands. While she stayed to chat with his mom. When we got back I could hear this girl yelling at his son to do the laundry and when he did that she dragged him by his ear into the kitchen and shoved him in a chair and told him to talk to her. I felt like one of those angry cartoon characters with steam blowing out the ears! I grabbed a cigarette and ran outside. I couldn't trust myself not to smash her in the face for what she did and with her being pregnant I knew that wouldn't be advisable. I sat out there so angry. I was getting ready to toss some salt on his doorstep to make sure she could never come back. I was so angry. I sat there over and over again repeating that she needed to go, needed to go, needed to go. Finally she left and I went back inside. But, I was still shaking from head to toe. So, I grabbed another cigarette and went back outside. My boyfriend followed me this time and asked me what was wrong. I told him that it angered me to see her do that to his son. But, he thinks she was just playing around! I told him playing around or not that can damage his hearing. But, all wise medical assistant that he is claims that can't actually happen. Ha! I just looked it up online and yes it can! I think because his brother and sister used to really beat him up horribly as a child he thinks anything else is just playing around. He had a hernia as a child and he said his brother who is 10 years older than him (and his sister is 10 years older than that) actually kicked him so hard in the kidney that he was peeing blood from it. I don't think this makes what his niece did any better by comparison... and honestly I don't think a girl who does something like that has any business being a mother in the first place. She just seems so evil and horrible. I feel like this is just one of those things I will need to wait out and whatch her evilness come to a head. But I think I'm also going to talk to my boyfriend's son tomorrow and ask him how he felt about it. He wasn't yelling and screaming at the time, but he wasn't exactly laughing and acting like it was all in good fun either. He seemed more resigned to it.