What if your 24-year husband/wife cheats on you

Hi altirbonganay: That's hard and the fact that we have been passes so many time together makes me really sad but I think that if she has staye with me I think I can give her a second chance but it really deppends on how she feels. I'll face her and I'll tell her how I feel, I'll discuss with her about this issue and I think I won't forgive her at once. Depending on how she acts I'll try to forget and forgive for our relationship. ALVARO

I would leave him. Immediately. I don't care how long we have been together - if he cheats that is extremely disrespectful and he obviously doesn't love me anymore. I am no longer what he wants, so why should I stick around? Nope, that is a deal breaker. I would be gone.

Cheating no matter at which age for me is a definite no, no. I really can't say after 24 years that I would feel differently about it being a no, no. Certainly would be much more painful because after 24 years, I would hope I am loved just as much as I have given. It would be that much more sad for me.

As soon as I found out, I would be heading to the courthouse. They say Once a Cheater Always a Cheater. My thought is, if they cheat on you, he/she doesn't love you. Best Wishes!

true.. cheating is common nowadays. if im in that situation, i wont be a fake and still continue the anniversary and just talk about the problem after that. i dont want people to see both of us as a happy perfect couple when the truth is there's something serious going on. what i'll do is deal with the problem as soon as i discovered it. giving chance to my partner will still depend on many things such as his efforts to earn it, and such like.. :) thanks for this discussion, happy mylotting.. :)