sick and tired of someone you love

May 3, 2011 6:16am CST
Sometimes no matter how hard pushing myself to be patient and understanding still it came to a point that i want it enough, I'm fed up, I'm sick and tired. Until now I can't believe that I'm with the person who is so narrow minded and immature. I feel like I wanted to scream.
5 responses
• Philippines
3 May 11
You have place words in my mouth. I am thinking this same thoughts about a family member that I have patiently tried to understand. I have already talked it out with him, prayed about it and had a heart to heart talk with my Mom. The greatest thing that prevents me from totally giving up on him is that there is something in me that says there is still hope for him.
@gorila (186)
• Indonesia
3 May 11
scream ... screaming loudly. remove all negative feelings that you feel. then think calmly about what will you do next. continuing relationship with him, or finished up here?
@picjim (3002)
• India
3 May 11
Try to make him see things through your perspective.If after your loving persuasion he doesn't see the error of his ways.I feel there is no point in prolonging a relationship where the other doesn't reciprocate your love and is not considerate towards you.Try as best as you can to counsel him and change his thinking to that of a mature adult.
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
3 May 11
Hi, you do not have much details given in your post and so i am unable to give advise. However, i believe that you should cool down first, think things through and then have a good talk with the person you said is so narrow minded and immature. Don't forget that this is the very same person that you once loved so dearly.
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
3 May 11
then feel free to scream here at mylot.. :) well if you want him to be totally out of your life, simply tell him that both of you are done. but if you want him to change cause you still have hopes, then you have to be more patient, and try different methods of making him realize how immature he is, but im telling you it's not gonna be easy, i've been there. :)