Why we aren't allowed to advertise sites in our posts at myLot?

Because otherwise that is all that would ever be up here!

Hi Rashima, We are not allowed to post our links on mylot because admin do not wish mylot to be a site where people would look for referrals always on each and every post and many would spam all discussions with referral links even if the discussion is about something else which in turn would harm the reputation of the site About deleting , well once posted no one can change the post only admin can do it so someone would report your conversation with links to admin and they would look in to it, if it violates the terms and conditions, they would for sure delete it.

You heard 3honor, you can always add your referral links to your profile, but don't tell people to visit your profile on your discussions--that's a guideline violation, too.