The Most Beautiful Girl in the World
May 8, 2011 7:39am CST
It is Mother's Day , so Happy Mother's Day to all. I did not celebrate this day, not with so much happiness but rather a sadness. Someone posted a link to my FB wall; a music video of Prince titled The Most Beautiful Girl in this World.Isn't it sweet? but no... Unfortunately, this song reminded me of the days when I needed him most and he just turned his back on me and my daughter only to find out that he was busy flirting with his girlfriends and dedicated this song to one of them with a caption : "I think Prince was thinking of you when he wrote this song.:-)" And now, he shared this on my wall, with a different message of course, something about being a mum. He could have chosen a different video or better yet, did not post anything on my wall. Besides, I can not feel the sincerity of his message.. (It's plain to see, you're the reason that God made a girl." Take pride, you and your specie, tis a good day, whatever they call it, being a Mum. Thanks.) because he doesn't believe in Mother's Day... I feel hurt and insulted... Am I just overreacting? How would you feel if you were in my shoe?
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21 May 11
Hello, Jennyze.:-) So sorry about this very late reply. I haven't been so active in Mylot lately. I know him. He doesn't believe in mother's Day but because maybe he saw that there were friends (some of them are mutual friends) who greeted me so he too did the same thing(because he is supposed to be my husband). Yes, our so called friends thought that he is really passionate about me. If they only knew.... I am trying to ignore him and what he is doing to me but sometimes it is too difficult to ignore something that is so obvious. But I have faith in God that one day this will be over soon... Thank you dear for the support...
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8 May 11
He sounds like an insensitive, cold and childish jerk. How would I feel? I would feel blessed that I am no longer in a relationship with him and so should you. I know it brings back some painful memories but I hope you are able to move beyond them and enjoy the day with your daughter. You both deserve it and you deserve better than this guy.
11 May 11
Yes, sometimes he could be really insensitive when it comes to my emotions. . I guess, I can not say the same thing for me because I am still with this person. Same old issues and the ghosts of the past seem haunting us lately more often than I can bear... But, I did try my best to enjoy that day with my daughter. We went out and had breakfast together. It was a good day. Thank you for dropping by and sharing your feeling about this, Sid. God bless you always, my dear.:-)
8 May 11
I think you interpreted different to how the poster intended, who would post that as kind gesture, maybe they dont completly understand the song. Or maybe they didn't know there was a strongresemblance to your life... maybe they think of you when ever they hear the song and your an inspiration. I hope your life is happy know apart from the emotional stuff!
9 May 11
Hello, dear. Or maybe the poster had completely forgotten that he dedicated this song to another girl and that he wasn't aware that I knew about it... Well, I'm trying to live a happy life, though despite of this. Only, I was just sad that I was reminded of the bitter past, of all days, on Mother's DAy...
8 May 11
Hi! I'm quite a sensitive person and yes, I'd feel the same way if I were in your shoe. However, the person who posted that link on your wall didn't have any inkling to your past unless of course, he does. But then, don't overreact. Just ignore whatever comments that you feel has touched a fragile portion of your heart.The more you dwell on it, the more it will ruin your day! He smiles and you don't...So better still, smile along rather than nurture the hurt. Hope this helps! Happy Mother's Day to you!
11 May 11
Hello, Azuncionne. Probably, he has no idea that I knew he dedicated this song to another girl. But, who cares about it anyway? For sure, he doesn't because it was like year 2008 when he did it... Yes, I will not wallow on the sadness of such memory, dear. I have moved on and trying my best to shake those sad thoughts in my head. I don't want him smiling while I am the one crying. He doesn't deserve it!