Making love and choosing life partner

It's easy to get together while difficult to get along with each other. We humans are individuals, we have our set of thinking, habits and routines. When we are used to that environment, we won't be able to change in a short span of time, when someone else joins in, starts to change some of the things. It's especially the case of marriages. Couples marry because they understand each other, but understanding each other too well, can end up leaving each other too.

The discussion you just started is vague.In reality it is normal for those who fall in love to get married and settle down atleast happily for a few years.But I think what you are referrin to is Teenage puppy love which can carry for a much older age as well,which is then called selfish love,because the couples fall in love to maintain their self esteem and other teeny weeny reasons.These love affairs are singularly based on physical attraction and they never graduate out of the college coccoon from where it started.So I believe true loves never fail,while selfish narrow love is always doomed to failure

Hi. sriroshan Such a relationship that does not last, is not a relationship that God has put together. Only man has. That is why it always seems to end. Many people get married for the wrong reasons. I always like to think and believe, that the man that I will ever get married to, is the man that I wish to always be with forever. I just can't see myself getting married multiple times until I can find the right man that is for me. It is sad that two people get married only to find out that they are no longer going to be together and that their future lies in them being with someone else down the line. When I think about marriage, I see forever and no departing.

I think making love and choosing life partner are the same because I personally feel you should only love if you are going to choose that person as your life partner or else you should not choose is my view.