Have You Try To Disobey Your Parents?
By oninomar
@oninomar (505)
Philippines
May 11, 2011 11:33am CST
Many of us really don't bother what will our parents feel every time we disobey them.. have you ever do that to your parents? Have you already done that to them? If not yet, don't even attempt to try it..
Parents are the foundation of our grown and our life. they are the one who suffer the hardship when we were in this world.. Sometimes it will come to our life that we sometimes gonna ignore their order or their please to us. We sometimes don't mind or don't follow their mandate. Do we really care for them?? Have you experienced that your mother cried because she feel so tired and you even don't bother to help her?
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5 responses
@dream_ozn (1754)
• Singapore
12 May 11
I know we should not disobey our parents because they love us so much. However, what can i do when they disapprove of the relationship I have with my boyfriend? I am forced to choose only one and i'm really unhappy because of this.
i don't want to defy them too, but i really hope they can understand my position too. I really should care about them more, but then again, it's quite weird.
@s2daj_genx (250)
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12 May 11
hello oninomar
i think i have disobey my parents. some of the decisions they made for me was not correct according to my views so i did something which i thought was right thing for me. I guess every teenager thinks that their parents are out dated and don't know anything. AND i was one of them but as time pass and begin to face day to day trouble i began to realise the hardship, burden and responsibilities of them. I now respect them from inner core of my heart.
I was never a bad son, i do not think i have made my parents cry because of my action. BUT as a regular teenager i had disobey their commands some times.
@SpikeTheLobster (6403)
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11 May 11
Modern society gives a lot more power to children that it used to - even 20-30 years ago, most kids wouldn't talk back to their parents or teachers. Too many parents cross the line in an attempt to be "friends" for their kids (which is another discussion entirely), which gives even more power to the young.
I don't remember who, but a philosopher once said something like "When we make our children our gods, society is doomed".
Like all children, I wasn't perfect. I tried to be good, tried to help; sometimes I didn't want to, sometimes I couldn't care less. I'd like to think that I tried most of the time, though!
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
12 May 11
I would not say that I disobeyed my parents before, I would say that I questioned their decisions or orders most of the time when I was a teenager. When my father asked me to go to the neighbor house to collect a monthly fee of something, I asked him: Why me? Isn't that your job as the head of the club? I didn't know anything about the club, why should I do it?
Things like that happened a lot during my teenager day, so now I tried to explain things in detail to nieces and nephews when they have questions about their parent's decision.
Things like that happened a lot during my teenager day, so now I tried to explain things in detail to nieces and nephews when they have questions about their parent's decision.
@wolfwise (100)
• Philippines
12 May 11
Respect between siblings especially between offspring and parents. I ashamed to say that I have argued with my parents a few years back not too disrespectful though. I was some what trying to defend my own point of view during that time all though I still think now that I was still correct during that time, I still shouldn't have argued with them none the less.
